The Surprising Reason Why Calm Leaders Create Focused Teams

Have you ever walked into a room and felt like something was wrong, even if no one said anything? Maybe people looked worried, or the air just felt tense. Before you knew it, you started feeling nervous too.

Now think about a different kind of room—one that feels calm and steady, even when there’s a lot going on. In that kind of space, it’s easier to think and get things done. It almost feels like the room itself is telling you, “You’re doing great!”

That’s because people feel the energy of the leader in the room. If a leader is calm, it helps everyone else stay focused. But if a leader is stressed, that stress spreads like a cold—real fast.

Think about a time when you felt really clear and ready to work. Was it because everything was perfect? Or was it because the person in charge made you feel safe and focused? The truth is, how a leader feels affects the whole team, whether they realize it or not.

Some people think staying calm under pressure is just something you’re born with, but that’s not true. It’s a skill you can practice—like learning to ride a bike or tying your shoes. And when you do, it makes a huge difference.

Think about this – have you ever noticed how your own mood affects others? If you walk into a room feeling worried, do people start looking nervous too? But when you walk in feeling calm, doesn’t everything seem to run more smoothly?

The thing is, being a great leader isn’t just about what you say or do. It’s also about how you make people feel. And the good news is that you don’t have to be perfect. Just making small changes to your energy can help your whole team feel better and get more done.

So, what kind of energy are you bringing into the spaces where you lead? Are you helping people feel focused and ready to work? Or does it sometimes feel like everything is spinning too fast?

If you’ve ever wanted to create a calm and focused space for your team, this episode is for you. 

Why Emotional Contagion Happens

Have you ever been around someone who was really stressed and, all of a sudden, you started feeling nervous too? Or maybe you were with someone who was super calm, and you started to feel relaxed, even if you were worried before?

That’s because feelings can spread—kind of like a yawn. When one person feels a certain way, the people around them often start to feel the same. This happens all the time, even when we don’t notice it.

Here’s why: Our brains have something called mirror neurons. These little brain cells help us copy the feelings and actions of others. If someone is smiling and calm, our brain picks up that signal and helps us feel calm too. But if someone is worried or upset, we start to feel that way without even trying.

Our brains are also always watching for danger. One way we figure out if things are okay is by looking at the people around us—especially leaders, coworkers, or others that you come in contact with. If they seem calm, our brain thinks, “Everything is fine. But if they look stressed, our brain might panic and make small problems feel big.

This isn’t just about feelings—it actually changes how well we think and work. When we’re around calm people, our brain stays clear and focused, making it easier to solve problems. But when we’re around stress, our brain jumps into panic mode, making everything seem harder than it really is.

What’s really amazing is that we don’t even choose to copy someone’s emotions—it just happens. That’s why one person’s mood can spread to a whole group without anyone saying a word.

So why does this matter? Because your feelings affect others, too. The way you act and feel spreads to the people around you. If you stay calm, you help others feel calm, too. But if you’re upset, that feeling spreads just as fast.

The good news is that you can choose what kind of energy you bring into a room. Even small changes—like taking a deep breath before reacting—can help everyone around you feel more steady and focused.

The best leaders know this secret: When they stay calm, their whole team works better. And when you understand this, you can use it to help others, too.

The Brain Science Behind Calm Leadership

Let’s look at what happens in the brain when we’re calm—or when we’re not—and why it’s so important for you and the people around you.

Your brain is always working, even when you don’t notice it. One of its biggest jobs is to keep you safe. It’s always watching and listening to see if everything is okay. And one of the biggest clues it uses is the people around you.

If you stay calm, it tells other people’s brains, “Everything is fine. We’ve got this.” But if you seem nervous or stressed, their brains might think, “Uh-oh! Something is wrong!” This happens because of how different parts of the brain work.

The thinking part of the brain, which I like to call the Supervising Parent, helps us solve problems and make good decisions. But when we get too stressed, the brain switches to a different part—the Toddler Brain. This part only cares about danger and reacts fast, even when there’s no real danger. It’s like a fire alarm that goes off whether there’s smoke or just burnt toast.

When the Toddler Brain takes over, it’s hard to focus. Even small tasks feel big. But when a leader stays calm, it helps everyone think clearly and get things done.

Think of it like Wi-Fi. When the signal is strong, everything works smoothly. But when it’s weak and glitchy, it’s stressful.  Like trying to watch a video that keeps freezing. 

Even better, when you stay calm over and over, people start to trust you. Their brains learn, “This person won’t freak out, even when things get hard.” That makes everyone feel safer and more confident, which helps them do their best work.

Being calm isn’t just good for the brain—it’s good for the body too. When people feel safe and supported, they have less of a stress hormone called cortisol, which makes everything feel extra hard. Instead of wasting energy worrying, they can focus on what really matters.

So next time things get busy, think about the energy you’re giving off. Are you helping others stay calm, or making things feel even more stressful? The way you show up affects how everyone else’s brain works—and that’s a big deal, especially for accountants.

Why Calm Is a Leadership Superpower

Now that we know how calmness helps the brain, let’s talk about why it’s such a superpower for leaders. Being calm isn’t just about feeling good—it helps people trust you, think clearly, and work better as a team.

Have you ever met someone who stays steady even when everything around them feels stressful? The kind of person who walks into a busy room and suddenly, things feel a little more under control?

That kind of leader makes everyone feel safer, more focused, and more capable. It’s not just nice—it’s powerful.

Being calm doesn’t mean pretending problems don’t exist. It means staying steady even when things get tough. When a leader does that, it helps everyone else take a deep breath, think before they react, and find solutions instead of just worrying about problems.

And research shows that people trust calm leaders the most. Not because they always have the right answer, but because they don’t panic. They show, over and over, that they can handle tough situations without losing control. That kind of leader makes people feel safe.

Another reason calmness is so important is that it helps people see things more clearly. Imagine looking at a mountain covered in thick fog. You can’t see the path forward. 

But when the fog lifts, everything becomes clear. That’s what a calm leader does—they help people focus on what matters and let go of what doesn’t.

Calm leaders also help people be more creative and work together better. When people don’t feel rushed or judged, they share more ideas and take more chances. A calm leader makes everyone feel safe to try new things, and that’s when great ideas happen.

Studies also show that calmness spreads. When one person stays steady, others start to do the same. Before you know it, the whole team is handling challenges with more confidence and focus—not because the problems disappeared, but because you showed them how.

Being a calm leader doesn’t mean you’ll never feel stressed. Of course, you will—you’re human. But it does mean choosing to manage your emotions so they don’t control you. The more you practice, the better you get.

So, what makes a great leader? It’s not just their job title or their skills. It’s their ability to bring calm to the chaos, to build trust, and to help people do their best, no matter what’s going on around them. That’s what makes calm leadership a superpower.

The Hidden Costs of Stressful Leadership

But what happens when calm is missing? Let’s look at how stress in leadership can slow things down and make work harder for everyone—including the leader.

When a leader is stressed, it’s like the whole team is carrying extra weight. Even simple tasks start to feel heavy. Instead of moving forward smoothly, everything feels rushed and messy.

Have you ever noticed that when people are nervous, they make more mistakes? That’s not an accident. 

Stress makes it harder for the brain to focus. Instead of paying attention to details, people go into survival mode—and that’s when things start slipping through the cracks.

But it’s not just about mistakes. Stress makes work exhausting. Even small tasks feel like a huge effort when the whole team is on edge. It’s like everyone is running a race without a finish line.

When a leader is stressed, the team reacts instead of solving problems. It’s like trying to clean up a mess that never ends. Over time, stress makes people feel tired and unmotivated. Work starts to feel like a chore.

Stress also hurts trust. If a leader is always tense or unpredictable, people might be afraid to ask for help or share their ideas. Instead of feeling safe, they just try to avoid making mistakes.

And here’s the tricky part—stress spreads fast. Even small things start to feel like big problems. But many leaders don’t see how their stress affects everyone around them.

This isn’t about blaming leaders for feeling stressed—leading is a tough job. But it’s important to ask: Is the way I handle stress helping or hurting the people around me?

When you lead with calm, you avoid these hidden problems. You help your team focus, trust each other, and do their best work—even when things are tough. And that can make all the difference.

How to Cultivate Calm as a Leader

Being a leader can feel stressful, but that doesn’t mean you have to be stressed all the time. Let’s look at some simple ways you can stay calm and help your team feel steady, no matter what’s going on.

Here’s the thing: Staying calm doesn’t just happen—it’s a choice you make every day, even when things feel overwhelming.

One of the best things you can do is leave your stress at the door. If you’re having a tough day or feeling frustrated, that’s okay. But your team doesn’t need to carry that weight with you.

This doesn’t mean you should hide your feelings or act like a robot. It just means thinking about how you show up, so your emotions don’t make things harder for everyone else.

If you notice yourself feeling anxious or rushed, take a moment to pause. Even one deep breath can help you feel more in control before you walk into a meeting or conversation.

Another way to stay calm is to set clear boundaries. If you take on too much, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. Protecting your time helps you handle challenges without feeling stretched too thin.

Being prepared also makes a huge difference. If you think ahead about how you’ll handle tough situations, you’ll feel more in control when they happen.

And don’t forget to give yourself breathing room. A little extra time between meetings or tasks can help you reset and stay steady throughout the day.

Lastly, you don’t have to do it all alone. Whether it’s a mentor, a coach, a coworker, or your team, asking for help can take some of the pressure off your shoulders.

Being a calm leader doesn’t mean you never feel stressed. It just means choosing to manage your emotions so they don’t spread to everyone else.

When you show up steady and focused, it helps your whole team feel the same way. And that’s one of the best ways to lead.

Becoming a Smarter Accountant: Creating My Own Calm in the Midst of Chaos

Sometimes, staying calm isn’t just about being a good leader—it’s about survival. Let me share a story about how I learned to find calm during one of the hardest times of my life.

I’ve worked with leaders who were anything but calm. You know the type—the ones who turn everything into a crisis. It’s exhausting, right?

For a long time, I thought I just had to deal with it. I figured my job was to get my work done, no matter how stressful the environment was. But then, life changed everything when I was diagnosed with cancer in May of 2024.

Suddenly, staying calm wasn’t just about making it through the workday—it was about my health. I needed to take care of myself, and that meant learning how to protect my peace. I made a decision: No matter what was happening around me, I was going to create my own bubble of calm.

The hardest part was setting boundaries. The person I worked for was always rushing, always stressed, and always pulling everyone into their chaos. If I let their energy take over, I knew I wouldn’t stand a chance.

So, I got really clear about what I needed. I calmly told them when I would be available, how I would handle last-minute requests, and what I couldn’t take on. It wasn’t easy, but the more I stood my ground, the more I realized—I could protect my own peace.

And the good news is that it worked. Not only did I stay focused when I was working, but I also had the mental strength I needed to get through one of the toughest times in my life.

But here’s the thing—this isn’t just for big life challenges. It’s for anyone who wants to stay steady in a stressful world.

You don’t have to be a boss to set the tone for your own space. You can decide how you want to show up, what energy you bring, and what energy you allow in. It’s not about controlling everything—it’s about choosing what affects you.

I won’t say it’s always easy. But if I’ve learned anything, it’s that protecting your peace is worth it. It doesn’t just help you do better at work—it helps you feel better in your life.

So, what would it look like for you to create your own bubble of calm? What boundaries could you set? How could you show up differently, even when things feel chaotic?

It’s not about being perfect—it’s about taking small steps toward the peace you deserve.

And speaking of small steps, let’s go over the biggest takeaway from today and an action item you can try this week.

Key Takeaway and Action Item

The most important thing to remember is this: Your energy is one of your most powerful tools. Whether you’re leading a team or just managing your own day, choosing to stay calm—even when things feel chaotic—helps you focus, do your best work, and positively affect everyone around you.

So here’s something to try this week: Ask yourself, “What would it look like for me to bring calm into my day, no matter what’s going on around me?”

This question helps you turn your focus inward. It’s easy to think that staying calm depends on what’s happening around you, but the truth is, it starts with you.

By asking yourself this, you’ll start noticing small ways to bring more calm into your day. Maybe it’s setting a boundary, taking a deep breath before reacting, or deciding not to get pulled into someone else’s stress.

Choosing calm doesn’t mean you’ll never feel stress. It means choosing how to handle it. When you stay calm, everything feels easier. You don’t have to fix everything—just decide how you want to show up.

So, what’s one way you can create calm today? Start there and see how it changes not just your day, but the energy of the people around you.

Well, that’s what I have for you today. Thank you for joining me as I shared why calm leaders create focused teams. I hope you’re walking away with the awareness of how you can create calm in the midst of chaos, whether you’re a leader or not.

As I always say, you’ve worked hard to become an accountant; it’s time to make it easier to be one.

If you’d like to discuss anything you’re currently struggling with, you can schedule a free 30-minute call with me at  https://thesmarteraccountant.com/calendar/

And don’t forget to check back each week for more tips and strategies to help you go from being a stressed accountant to a Smarter Accountant.

Also, if you haven’t already, make sure to take The Smarter Accountant Quiz at www.thesmarteraccountant.com to see if you’ve been underutilizing your accountant brain. It’s a great starting point to see where you are and how you can improve.

Lastly, if you’ve found today’s episode helpful, I’d really appreciate it if you could spread the word to other accountants. The more we get this message out, the more we can change the narrative in the accounting profession and help accountants everywhere.

The truth is that you’re already smart, but this podcast will show you how to be smarter.

What My Recent Cancer Diagnosis Can Teach YOU About Being a Smarter Accountant

(Note: If you or someone you know is dealing with a diagnosis, or if you are supporting someone who is going through a health issue, I have written a short article titled “Cancer Is a C – The Tool That’s Helping Me Deal With My Cancer Diagnosis and Treatment”  You can download it at https://thesmarteraccountant.com/cancer/)

When life throws something big at you, it changes everything, doesn’t it? As I’ve shared before on the podcast, that “something big” was a recent cancer diagnosis, and let me tell you—it completely flipped my world upside down.

In May of 2024 I was told I had stage 4 endometrial cancer.  To say it came as a complete shock is an understatement.

But it also made me stop and really think about how I was living, working, and spending my time. And what I learned during that time has changed everything about how I approach life and work.

Let me ask you, have you ever felt like you’re just trying to keep up, juggling a million things at once, wondering how much more you can handle? Maybe it’s a crazy time at work, a personal challenge, or just the daily grind of feeling like there’s never enough time to do it all.

But what if those overwhelming moments weren’t just struggles? What if they were actually trying to show you a better way to handle everything?

The thing was, during chemo, I couldn’t just “power through” like I’d always done before. My body forced me to slow down, and I had to figure out how to still get everything done.  

I’m a CPA working for a firm, but I’m also the CEO of my coaching business, The Smarter Accountant and I help support another company called CPA MOMS.  I not only had my accounting work to do, but I had to run my coaching business, coach my clients, and create and host 2 separate podcasts a week.

But once I was told I’d be having 6 months of chemotherapy, it made me realize how often we tell ourselves that working harder or longer is the solution. But does that actually work, or does it just leave us completely drained and frustrated?

What if the real key isn’t doing more but learning how to approach things differently? What if the thing that I’ve been applying for over a decade, wrote a book about, and have been teaching my coaching clients, how to manage your mind, was THE thing that unlocked everything else?

I can tell you this – at no other time was it more apparent to me that what I teach my coaching clients is life-changing.  If it wasn’t for everything I’ve been working on the past 10 years and everything I discuss on this podcast, I would have never handled my recent cancer diagnosis as well as I did.

So, if you’re feeling like you’re constantly behind, spinning your wheels, trying to keep up, and it feels like no matter how hard you try, there’s always more waiting for you, I get it.

But what if there’s a smarter way? A way to get more done without completely running yourself into the ground?

For me, I didn’t want to use my health issue as an excuse to not do my best.  I remember telling myself that once I was done with chemo and the dust settled, I didn’t want to have to crawl my way back and have to rebuild the foundation I’d already worked so hard to build.  I wanted to let this unexpected event be a way for me to become an even Smarter Accountant.  

So, if you’ve ever wondered if there’s a way to break out of the unhelpful cycle you’re probably in and actually feel in control of your life, I’m here to tell you that there is a better way, and I want to share what I’ve learned with you.

The truth is that you don’t have to have a scary diagnosis to apply what I’m going to share today, but I promise you, there are things my recent cancer diagnosis will teach you about becoming a Smarter Accountant.

Lesson 1: Time Is Your Most Valuable Resource

If there’s one thing chemo taught me, it’s that time is more valuable than we realize, not only in the proverbial sense of “time is precious” but in the sense of being able to get my accounting work and everything else I had to get done. 

When I lost at least two workdays every chemo cycle, I had no choice but to figure out how to make the rest of my time count.

And here’s what I learned in a big way –  that being productive isn’t about cramming more into your day. It’s about focusing on what actually matters and letting the rest go.

For me, that meant time blocking and deciding in advance how I was going to use my limited work hours. I had to be ruthless about priorities—what was truly worth my energy, and what wasn’t.

Honestly, by applying everything I teach my Smarter Accountant time management coaching clients, I was able to be much more intentional about how I spent my time and energy.

So, the question is – how are you spending your time right now? Are you focusing on what’s important, or just reacting to whatever feels urgent?

The truth is that time isn’t something you can get more of, but you can make the most of what you have. And it all starts with looking at how you’re spending it and deciding what really deserves your attention.

When you treat time like the precious resource it is, everything changes. You don’t feel so overwhelmed, because you’re focusing on what truly matters.

And the best part is that you don’t have to wait for a major life event to start using your time differently. You can start today, right now, by asking yourself: What’s the most important thing I can do with my time this week?

Lesson 2: Health Is the Foundation for Productivity

If there’s one thing we accountants are great at, it’s pushing through when things get tough. But when I was going through chemo, “pushing through” wasn’t an option. My body forced me to rest whether I wanted to or not.

So, be honest – have you ever ignored your body because you thought you didn’t have time to slow down? I used to do that all the time, but chemo showed me that taking care of myself wasn’t optional—it was essential.

Here’s what I realized: if your health breaks down, nothing else matters. You can’t do great work, be there for your family, or enjoy life if you’re constantly running on empty.

During treatment, I had to prioritize rest and recovery on chemo days and the days after. It wasn’t negotiable. 

In fact, my home office is upstairs in my house and I had to be really smart about conserving my energy.  For example, things like going up and down the stairs weren’t possible when I was feeling weak, so I needed to give myself permission to go across the hallway and lay down for 15 minutes.

And you know what? The world didn’t fall apart when I took that time to care for myself.

Think about it – how often do we put everything else ahead of our health? We tell ourselves, “I’ll take a break when I’m less busy,” but that moment never comes. What if taking care of yourself actually made you better at your job?

When I started making my health a priority, I noticed something incredible. I wasn’t just surviving; I was more focused, clear-headed, and productive during the time I did have to work.

I remember laughing with my husband and telling him that cancer may have made me a better accountant because even though I was incredibly productive before, having cancer made me so much more laser-focused on what was important and what wasn’t.

The thing is, your health isn’t just about your personal life—it’s the foundation of your professional success, too. You can’t show up as your best self if you’re running on fumes.

So, what’s one small thing you can do today to take care of yourself? Maybe it’s taking a real lunch break, going to bed earlier, or even just stepping outside for a few minutes to breathe.

Your work will always be there, but your health needs attention now. Trust me, when you prioritize your well-being, everything else will start to fall into place.

Lesson 3: Time Management Starts with Mind Management

Here’s something I was reminded of in a big way: if your mind is all over the place, your time will be, too. During chemo, I couldn’t afford to waste energy on stress or overwhelm, so I had to get very intentional about how I managed my thoughts.

This is something that I discuss in the article that I mentioned earlier “Cancer Is a C – The Tool That’s Helping Me Deal With My Cancer Diagnosis and Treatment.”

So the question for you is, have you ever felt so stressed about everything you have to do that you can’t even figure out where to start? That used to happen to me all the time. But I realized that my thoughts about my workload were making it feel way heavier than it really was.

For example, when I caught myself thinking, “There’s no way I can get all this done,” I’d stop and ask, “What’s the most important thing I can do right now?” Just shifting that one thought helped me calm down and take action.

The truth is, our brains love to go into overdrive when there are things that need to be done. But here’s the thing: stress doesn’t come from the work itself. It comes from how we think about the work that needs to be done.

So, what are you telling yourself about your workload? Are you making it feel bigger and scarier than it needs to be? Or are you choosing thoughts that help you stay focused and productive?

When I was intentional about managing my mind, I noticed everything else became easier. I wasn’t wasting time spinning in overwhelm or second-guessing myself. I just got to work on what mattered.

The thing that no one else teaches accountants about time management is that it isn’t about calendars and to-do lists—it starts with what’s happening in your head. When you manage your mind, you can manage your time so much more effectively.

So the next time you’re feeling stuck, try this: stop, take a deep breath, and ask yourself, “What feeling would be helpful right now and what’s one thought that will create that feeling?” It’s amazing how much lighter everything feels when you take control of your thoughts.

The bottom line is that your mind is the most powerful time management tool you have. Use it well, and you’ll be amazed at what you can accomplish.

Lesson 4: Smarter Doesn’t Mean Harder

If there’s one myth we all need to let go of, it’s the idea that success comes from working harder and longer. During chemo, I had to work smarter because I simply didn’t have the energy or hours to spare—and guess what? I still got everything done.

In fact, I was done with the 9/15 and 10/15 deadlines 2 weeks early while also running my coaching business, coaching my clients, and creating and hosting 2 podcasts a week.

How is that humanly possible?  Because chemo forced me to see the truth: working harder isn’t the answer—it’s working smarter that makes the difference.

For me, working smarter meant focusing only on high-priority tasks, letting go of the rest, and not allowing negative people to drain my energy. I couldn’t waste time on people and things that didn’t matter, and honestly, most of us spend way too much time on things that don’t really move the needle.

Think about it: how much of your day is spent on things you “should” do versus what’s actually important? How easy is it to get things done when you or others are complaining or being negative?  What if you stopped trying to do it all and focused on doing what matters most?

Another important thing was setting and sticking to boundaries around my time and energy. If something didn’t fit into the hours I had, it had to wait. It was a little uncomfortable at first, but the freedom and focus it gave me were worth it.

Let me ask you this: how often do you let other people’s priorities or distractions derail your own plans? Working smarter means protecting your time like it’s one of your most valuable resources—because it is.

It’s not about doing more; it’s about doing better. And when you do that, you’ll realize you don’t need more hours in the day—you just need to use the ones you have more intentionally.

So, what’s one way you can start working smarter today? Maybe it’s saying no to a task that doesn’t matter or blocking off time for your most important work. Whatever it is, I promise it’ll feel like a weight has been lifted.

Success isn’t about how much you do. It’s about how well you do what truly matters. And when you start working smarter, everything gets a whole lot easier.

Lesson 5: Gratitude Changes Everything

When life gets hard, it’s so easy to focus on everything that’s going wrong. During chemo, I had plenty of reasons to feel frustrated or overwhelmed, but one of the most powerful things I did was focus on what I could be grateful for instead.

I never said, “Why is this happening to me?”  Instead, every day I focused on 3 things to be grateful for from the day before.

For me, it was the little things—support from my family, finishing a tough day of work, or even just the fact that I had a good cup of coffee that morning. Those small moments of gratitude helped me stay grounded when everything else felt so heavy.

Here’s the thing – gratitude doesn’t mean ignoring the hard stuff. It means giving your brain a break from all the stress and remembering that not everything is terrible, even when life feels overwhelming.

Have you ever ended a long day and thought, “Nothing went right today”? What if, instead, you asked yourself, “What did go well today, no matter how small?” You might be surprised at how that shifts your perspective.

When you focus on what’s good, it changes how you show up. You feel calmer, more present, and better able to handle whatever’s in front of you. Gratitude doesn’t just make you feel better—it helps you work better, too.

Believe me, I could have focused on a lot of things that were scary and upsetting, but none of that would have been helpful for me mentally or physically.  When I focused on things I was grateful for, despite what I was going through medically, I began to see even more things that brought me a feeling of gratitude.

So how can you bring more gratitude into your day? It can be as simple as writing down three things you’re thankful for before bed or pausing during the day to appreciate a small win.

It doesn’t have to be big or fancy—it just has to be consistent. Gratitude is like a muscle: the more you practice it, the stronger it gets.

When you make gratitude a habit, you’ll start to notice something amazing. The hard stuff doesn’t feel quite so heavy, and the good stuff feels even sweeter. It’s one of the simplest ways to make a big difference in your life.

Trust me, gratitude changes everything. And the best part is that you can start right now. What’s one thing you’re grateful for today?

You’ll be amazed at how stressful situations can become more manageable when you’re focused on gratitude.

Becoming a Smarter Accountant: Where I’m At Now

If there’s one thing I hope you take away from this, it’s that you don’t need cancer or a health diagnosis to teach you that there’s always a smarter way to approach your life and work. Whether it’s how you manage your time, protect your health, shift your mindset, or focus on gratitude, small changes can make a huge difference.

As of today, I’m happy to report that my most recent PET scan showed that I went from stage 4 endometrial cancer to being cancer free! It’s been a tough journey and I am far from out of the woods, but it taught me something I believe applies to all of us: we’re capable of doing hard things when we focus on what matters most.

During these six months, I learned that it’s not about doing everything perfectly or working harder—it’s about managing your time, energy, and mindset in a way that helps you stay resilient. And resilience isn’t just about surviving; it’s about thriving even when life gets tough.

Once I was done with chemo, I got the word “Brave” tattooed on my wrist as a reminder of the strength I found when I needed it most. And here’s what I want you to know: that same strength is within you. Whether it’s a personal challenge or a tough season at work, you’re capable of finding a way through when you focus on what truly matters.

Think about the lessons I talked about: treating time as your most valuable asset, making your health a priority, managing your mind to manage everything else, working smarter instead of harder, and practicing gratitude to stay grounded. Which one of those speaks to you the most right now?

You don’t have to tackle everything all at once. Just pick one thing to focus on—one small shift you can make today—and see how it changes the way you feel and work.

You have everything you need to start working smarter, not harder. The question is: what’s the first step you’re going to take?

If there’s any episode of this podcast that I hope you take action on, let this be the one.

Speaking of taking action, now I’m going to share the key takeaway from today and an action item for the upcoming week.

Key Takeaway and Action Item

The key takeaway is that the way you approach your time, health, and mindset can completely change how you handle challenges and achieve success. It’s not about doing more—it’s about doing what truly matters in a way that supports your well-being and helps you thrive.

For this week, ask yourself, “What’s one small change I can make today to work smarter, not harder?”  This question helps you focus on action instead of overwhelm. It’s not about overhauling everything at once but finding one manageable thing you can do differently. 

Maybe it’s setting boundaries around your time, prioritizing your health, or simply shifting a stressful thought into a more productive one. Small changes add up, and even one step forward can start a ripple effect that makes everything feel easier.

The bottom line is that you don’t have to wait for a big wake-up call to start making your life and work more sustainable. Choose one thing to focus on today, and see how it helps you feel more in control and more at ease. 

The journey to becoming a Smarter Accountant starts with just one small, intentional step—and that step can happen right now.

Well, that’s what I have for you today. Thank you for joining me as I shared what my recent cancer diagnosis can teach YOU about being a Smarter Accountant. I hope you’re walking away with some inspiration that can help you have a more sustainable accounting career.

As I always say, you’ve worked hard to become an accountant; it’s time to make it easier to be one.

If you’d like to discuss anything you’re currently struggling with, you can schedule a free 30-minute call with me at  https://thesmarteraccountant.com/calendar/

And don’t forget to check back each week for more tips and strategies to help you go from being a stressed accountant to a Smarter Accountant.

Also, if you haven’t already, make sure to take The Smarter Accountant Quiz at www.thesmarteraccountant.com to see if you’ve been underutilizing your accountant brain. It’s a great starting point to see where you are and how you can improve.

Lastly, if you’ve found today’s episode helpful, I’d really appreciate it if you could spread the word to other accountants. The more we get this message out, the more we can change the narrative in the accounting profession and help accountants everywhere.

The truth is that you’re already smart, but this podcast will show you how to be smarter.

A Fool-Proof Time Blocking Process for Accountants

Have you ever felt like there just aren’t enough hours in the day? You sit down with your to-do list, ready to tackle everything, but somehow the day slips by, and you barely make a dent. It’s like you’re bouncing between emails, calls, and deadlines, and then suddenly it’s 5 PM, and you’re left thinking, “What did I even get done today?”

I totally get it. Between client demands, meetings, and everything you’ve got going on at home, it can feel impossible to keep up. To-do lists might seem like the answer, but let’s be honest—they usually just end up making you feel more scattered and overwhelmed instead of actually productive.

That’s where time blocking comes in. And before you roll your eyes and say, “Oh great, another time management hack,” stick with me for a second.

Time blocking isn’t about packing your day to the brim or scheduling every single minute like you’re some kind of robot. It’s actually about creating a simple, flexible structure that lets you take control of your time instead of feeling like your time is running you.

Think of it like organizing a messy closet. When everything has its place, it’s so much easier to find what you need. It’s the same with your time—when you know where your focus is going, you can actually reduce stress, get the important stuff done, and even make room for things like family time or self-care.

So, if you’re sick of feeling like you’re always behind or just putting out fires all day, it might be time to try something new. Time blocking could be exactly what you need to feel more in control. Let me walk you through how it works.

Why Time Blocking is Worth It

You already know this, but time is your most valuable resource. And as an accountant, there’s always more on your plate than there are hours in the day. Sure, sticky notes and apps can help a little, but let’s be real—they don’t solve the bigger problem.

The real issue isn’t how much you have to do; it’s how you’re managing your time. Being busy doesn’t automatically mean you’re being productive. 

The truth is that you can hustle all day and still not make real progress on what actually matters. That’s where time blocking comes in—it’s not about doing more, it’s about doing the right things at the right time.

Here’s the best part: time blocking gives your brain a much-needed break. Instead of constantly juggling decisions and feeling pulled in a million directions, you plan your day ahead of time so you can focus on one thing at a time.

It’s like setting an appointment with yourself. You wouldn’t skip a meeting with a client, right? Time blocking lets you treat your priorities with the same level of respect.

What’s the payoff? Less stress, more clarity, and the confidence that you’re spending your time on what matters most. Imagine shutting down your computer at the end of the day without guilt, knowing you focused on what truly needed your attention.

Now, time blocking isn’t going to magically erase your workload overnight, but it will give you something even better—control. And when you’re in control of your time, you’re in control of your life.

Let’s break it down together, starting with a look at why your brain is going to love this approach.

The Brain Science Behind Time Blocking

Let’s talk about your brain for a second. It’s kind of funny—your brain doesn’t love change, even when your current habits aren’t working. That’s why something new, like time blocking, can feel uncomfortable at first. It’s just your brain saying, “Hey, what’s going on here? Let’s stick to what we know.”

But here’s the good news: your brain actually loves clarity and structure. When you plan your day ahead of time, your brain can relax. No more guessing what comes next or worrying about what you’re forgetting—you can just focus on one thing at a time without feeling overwhelmed.

Time blocking gives your brain exactly what it needs: a clear roadmap. By assigning tasks to specific time slots, you take the guesswork out of your day. It’s like handing your brain a to-do list that’s already sorted and ready to go.

Even better, time blocking taps into the higher part of your brain—the one responsible for decision-making and planning (I like to call it your “Supervising Parent”). This is where your best thinking happens, and time blocking gives it the room it needs to do its job without distractions.

Basically, time blocking helps your brain work with you, not against you. It takes the chaos of a never-ending to-do list and turns it into something focused and manageable.

Now that you know why your brain is going to love this, let’s dive into how you can start making it work for you.

Prepare Your Foundation

Let’s start simple: this process isn’t all-or-nothing. You don’t have to follow every step perfectly or try to overhaul your entire schedule overnight. Just pick the steps that feel right for you and focus on working smarter, not harder.

Step 1: Sell Yourself on Time Blocking

Before you dive in, take a moment to ask yourself: is the way I’m managing my time actually working? If you’re constantly feeling behind or guilty about unfinished tasks, it might be time to try something new.

Here’s the deal—just commit to giving time blocking a 90-day test run. Remind yourself, “If this doesn’t work, I can always go back to my old way of doing things.” But at least give it a shot. Trust me, you might be surprised at what a difference it makes.

Step 2: Do a Time Audit

For a day or two, jot down what you’re doing every 30 minutes. I know it sounds tedious, but it’s incredibly eye-opening. You’ll start to notice where time is slipping away—like scrolling on your phone, giving in to interruptions, or getting stuck overthinking tasks.

You don’t need to do this all the time—maybe just once a quarter to spot patterns. It’s a great way to figure out when you’re most productive and when distractions tend to creep in.

Step 3: Block Out the Basics

Start by scheduling your non-negotiables—things like your sleep, morning routine, meals, and commute. These are the fixed blocks that form the foundation of your schedule.

One of my non-negotiables that’s on my calendar every week is a Wednesday date night with my husband.  We have been having date nights every Wednesday since we got married 16 years ago and nothing gets to take that time block unless it has to do with the kids or an emergency.

Okay, so once your non-negotiables are in place, now it’s time to look at everything else by prioritizing and planning which I’ll discuss in a second.  Just know this – if it feels like you’re cramming too much in, remember my favorite rule: “The math has to work.” 

If it doesn’t, you either need to do fewer things or spend less time on each task. It’s not about trying to squeeze everything in—it’s about being realistic and intentional.

Prioritize and Plan

It’s so easy to pack your calendar with things that feel urgent but don’t actually make a real difference. These next steps will help you fine-tune your time blocks so you’re focused on what really matters, not just staying busy.

Step 4: The To-Do Download

Start by getting everything out of your head and onto paper—big tasks, small tasks, random thoughts, all of it. Think of it like emptying a cluttered closet before organizing it.

This step clears your mental clutter and frees up your brain to focus on solving problems instead of trying to keep track of everything. You can do this once a week, or even daily if that works better for you.

Step 5: Prioritize What’s Most Important

Here’s the truth: not everything on your list is equally important, even if it feels that way. Take a moment to step back and use your higher brain (what I like to call your “Supervising Parent”) to figure out what’s going to have the biggest impact.

Circle the tasks that truly matter and let the rest take a back seat for now. This helps you break the cycle of overwhelm that happens when your lower brain (the “Toddler”) tries to convince you that everything is urgent.

Step 6: Estimate Time for Each Task

Once you’ve identified your priorities, decide how much time you’re willing to spend on each task. Notice I didn’t say “how long it will take”—you’re the one setting the limits here.

For example, give yourself 30 minutes for emails or 1 hour for a report. This keeps you focused and avoids falling into Parkinson’s Law, where tasks expand to fill the time available. Setting time boundaries is a game-changer for staying productive.

By prioritizing and planning, you’re making sure your time blocks are focused on what truly matters. Now I want to talk about how to put all this onto your calendar and create a schedule that works in real life.

Create Your Schedule

Let’s be real—life doesn’t always go according to plan. You might block out time for focused work, only to have an urgent request or unexpected call throw things off. That’s why building some flexibility into your schedule is key, while still staying intentional with how you use your time.

Step 7: Calendar Your Time Blocks

Take your priorities and map them out on your calendar. Think about when you’re at your best—use your sharpest hours for important work like reports or planning. Save the easier stuff, like answering emails, for when your energy dips.

And as I’ll share in a second, don’t forget to leave small gaps between your blocks. Those little breaks can make all the difference in avoiding burnout from back-to-back tasks.

Step 8: Add Buffer and Overflow Time

Let’s face it, things don’t always go as smoothly as planned. That’s why buffer time is your secret weapon. Leave 15–30 minutes between big tasks to handle delays or surprises without throwing your whole day off track.

At the end of your day, schedule a little overflow time. This is your “just in case” block for anything you didn’t finish earlier. But here’s the catch—don’t rely on it too much. The goal is to stick to your blocks as closely as possible, with overflow as a backup, not a crutch.

By combining thoughtful planning with a little flexibility, you’ll create a schedule that actually works for you, not against you. Next, we’ll talk about how to keep improving your system as you go.

Refine and Reflect

Let’s be honest—no plan is perfect right out of the gate. That’s why it’s so important to make small tweaks along the way. These little adjustments will help you build a system that truly works for you.

Step 9: Clean Up Your To-Do List

Take one last look at your to-do list. Anything you didn’t circle as a priority? It’s probably something you can delegate, delay, or just delete. Don’t overthink it—if it didn’t make the cut, it’s likely not essential.

Now trust your calendar. You’ve already mapped out what really matters, so toss the old list. You don’t need it anymore.

Step 10: Field Notes for Reflection

At the end of each week, take a few minutes to check in with yourself. Ask:

Did I stick to my time blocks? If not, what got in the way?

Did tasks take longer than I expected?

Were there distractions I didn’t account for?

This isn’t about beating yourself up—it’s about getting curious. Use what you notice to tweak your schedule for the next week. Maybe you need to adjust time estimates, add a bit more buffer time, or rearrange tasks to better fit your energy levels.

Learn and Adjust

Time blocking isn’t a one-and-done deal. Each week, those little tweaks you make will get you closer to a schedule that aligns with your goals. Over time, you’ll feel more in control, less rushed, and way less overwhelmed.

The time you spend setting up your schedule is an investment—and trust me, it’s worth it. You’ll save so much time and energy in the long run by working smarter, not harder.

Quick Start: Time Blocking Lite for Beginners

If the idea of diving into the full process feels overwhelming, don’t worry—you don’t have to do it all at once. Start small with what I call Time Blocking Lite, a simpler version to help you ease into the system and see results quickly.

How to Get Started:

Step 1: Do a To-Do Download

Spend 5–10 minutes writing down everything that’s on your mind. Tasks, ideas, random thoughts—just get it all out on paper. This clears up mental clutter and gives you a clearer picture of what’s on your plate.

Step 2: Prioritize What’s Most Important

Look at your list and circle 3–5 tasks that will make the biggest impact. Ask yourself, “What really needs my attention this week?” Don’t worry about tackling everything—just focus on the things that matter most right now.

Step 3: Estimate Time for Each Task

Decide how much time you’re willing to spend on each task. For example, maybe you give yourself 1 hour for a report or 30 minutes for emails. Keep it simple, and don’t overthink it. The goal is to set clear boundaries for your time.

Step 4: Block Out the Basics

Take your priorities and add them to your calendar. Start with your fixed commitments, like meetings or meals, and then add time blocks for your top 3–5 tasks. Make sure to leave a little buffer time between blocks so your schedule feels flexible, not rigid.

The reason this works is that Time Blocking Lite is like dipping your toe into the water—you get the benefits of better focus and productivity without a huge upfront commitment. Once you see how much clarity and control this gives you, you’ll feel ready to take on the full process.

Start small, stay curious, and build as you go. This is all about finding what works best for you!

Becoming a Smarter Accountant: Successfully Using Time Blocking

Let me tell you about one of my coaching clients who used to struggle with managing his time but learned how to successfully use time blocking. He came to me feeling like his workdays were always slipping through his fingers.

His to-do list was endless, and no matter how hard he worked, he could never seem to catch up. Every day felt like a blur—client emails, deadlines, constant interruptions—it all left him completely drained and frustrated by the time he closed his laptop.

When I suggested time blocking, he was skeptical. His days felt so unpredictable that he couldn’t imagine it working. But he was willing to give it a shot, and things started to change.

He began setting specific blocks of time for his tasks instead of reacting to his to-do list. For example, he spent an hour each morning on focused work and saved the afternoon for emails and client requests. Instead of jumping from one thing to another, he had a clear plan for when and how he’d tackle his day.

The results? Honestly, they were amazing. He gained control of his schedule and shaved about 5 hours off his workweek. By focusing on one task at a time, he worked faster, made fewer mistakes, and didn’t have to stay late to finish his projects.

And for the first time in years, he allowed himself to take guilt-free breaks during the day. He felt more productive and less stressed, and by the end of the day, he still had energy left for his family.

For him, time blocking wasn’t just about getting more done—it gave him structure and flexibility, making both his work and personal life feel more manageable. He even told me, “I had no idea how effective this could be until I tried it. I’ll never go back to the way I used to manage my time.”

I’m sharing his story because most of us were never taught how to manage our time—it’s something we’re just expected to figure out. My client was willing to try something new, even though it felt uncomfortable at first, and it completely changed how he works and lives.

The same thing is possible for you too.

Key Takeaway and Action Item

Now let me share the key takeaway for this episode – time blocking is about creating a structure that helps you focus on what matters most. By setting intentional time blocks, you take control of your day instead of letting it control you.

This week ask yourself, “What would my day look like if I decided ahead of time how long I would spend on each task?”

This question helps you shift from a reactive mindset to a proactive one. Instead of letting tasks take over your entire day or running out of time, you’re making intentional decisions about how much time you’re willing to spend. 

It’s about setting boundaries around your time and sticking to them, which is key to getting more done in less time and feeling more in control of your workday.

Well, that’s what I have for you today. Thank you for joining me as we dove into time blocking and how it can transform the way you manage your day. I hope you’re walking away with something useful, whether you apply it at work, at home, or both.

As I always say, you’ve worked hard to become an accountant; it’s time to make it easier to be one.

If you’re feeling like you’re constantly running out of time or just can’t get a handle on everything you need to do, I’m here to help. I offer a free Time Management Audit where we’ll work together to identify exactly what’s getting in your way and how you can start taking back control.

You can sign up for a session by visiting https://thesmarteraccountant.com/time-audit/. Let’s get you on the path to making your days less stressful and more productive.

And don’t forget to check back each week for more tips and strategies to help you go from being a stressed accountant to a Smarter Accountant.

Also, if you haven’t already, make sure to take The Smarter Accountant Quiz at www.thesmarteraccountant.com to see if you’ve been underutilizing your accountant brain. It’s a great starting point to see where you are and how you can improve.

Lastly, if you’ve found today’s episode helpful, I’d really appreciate it if you could spread the word to other accountants. The more we get this message out, the more we can change the narrative in the accounting profession and help accountants everywhere.

The truth is that you’re already smart, but this podcast will show you how to be smarter.

Everything You Need To Know About Conquering Procrastination

Before I get started, if you’re gearing up for tax season, make sure you download The NEW Smarter Accountant Tax Season Survival Checklist at https://thesmarteraccountant.com/survival-checklist/.  

With over 30 years of tax seasons under my belt, I know just how challenging this time of year can be. That’s why I created this checklist—to help you stay focused, productive, and in control every step of the way.

Okay, now let’s talk about procrastination.  Just between me and you, how many things have you procrastinated in the past week?

Maybe you’ve been telling yourself, “I’ll get to it tomorrow,” or “I work better under pressure.” And sure, you might pull it off, but at what cost? Suddenly, you’re working late, scrambling to get everything done, and feeling like you’re always a step behind.

Here’s the thing: procrastination isn’t about being lazy or disorganized. Far from it. Some of the most detail-oriented, productive accountants I know struggle with it all the time. 

In fact, it’s one of the most common things I teach in The Smarter Accountant Time Management Program.  The reason it’s so common for accountants is that procrastination is a sneaky little habit that shows up when you’re stressed, overwhelmed, or just don’t feel like dealing with a tough task.

The irony is that procrastination actually creates the stress we’re trying to avoid. It’s like kicking the can down the road, only to find that the can got bigger and heavier by the time you pick it up again.

But here’s what I want you to know: procrastination isn’t some unchangeable flaw. It’s a behavior—a reaction to what’s going on in your mind. And once you understand what’s driving it, you can take control and do something about it.

So, if procrastination has been hanging around in your life a little too often, stick with me. We’re going to dig into why it happens, why it’s so common for accountants, and—more importantly—how you can start to change the pattern.

But to really understand procrastination and why it keeps showing up, we first need to take a closer look at what’s going on in your brain. Let’s dive into that next.

The Brain Science Behind Procrastination

It turns out your brain has some built-in tendencies that make procrastination almost inevitable if you’re not paying attention.

First, let’s talk about something called the Motivational Triad. I’ve mentioned it before on the podcast and in my book “The Smarter Accountant,” but it’s important to understand that your  brain is hardwired to seek pleasure, avoid pain, and conserve energy. Sounds simple, right? 

But here’s the problem: when you’re faced with a task that feels boring, overwhelming, or stressful (like a lot of the work we do as accountants) your brain automatically looks for something easier or more enjoyable to do instead. It’s not trying to sabotage you; it’s just trying to keep things easy and comfortable.

Besides the Motivational Triad creating procrastination, the second issue is perfectionism. If you’re like many accountants, the thought of making a mistake can feel unbearable. Your brain interprets that potential failure as “pain,” so it stalls to avoid the discomfort. This is where procrastination kicks in—it’s a way of delaying that uncomfortable feeling, even if it’s temporary.

Lastly, there’s this sneaky little thing called the mere urgency effect. I’ve also talked about this on the podcast, but it’s the fact that your brain is wired to think that everything is urgent, even when it’s not.   

That’s why you might find yourself spending 20 minutes replying to emails or reorganizing your files instead of tackling the bigger project with a tighter deadline. It’s not that those small tasks really need your attention—they just feel easier to cross off the list, so your brain jumps on them.

The truth is that your brain isn’t trying to work against you. It’s just following its natural instincts.

In other words, there’s nothing wrong with you if you procrastinate, you just want to learn a better way to override the natural tendencies of your brain to not want to do a lot of the work we have to do as accountants.  Once you learn that, you’ll be amazed at how much more productive you can be. 

Now that you know how your brain plays a role in procrastination, let’s talk about the difference between procrastination and avoidance—and why knowing the distinction can be a game-changer.

Understanding Procrastination vs. Avoidance

Let’s clear something up—procrastination and avoidance aren’t the same thing. They might look similar at first, but understanding the difference is key to figuring out how to tackle them.

Procrastination happens when you delay doing something, even though you know it needs to get done. Think of it as that task you keep pushing off until the very last minute, but you still manage to complete it—usually in a frenzy, right before the deadline. 

For example, you might wait until the day before to start reconciling client accounts, telling yourself, “I’ll get to it when I’m really focused.” Eventually, it gets done, but not without some stress and scrambling.

Avoidance, on the other hand, is a different beast. This is when you don’t do the task at all. There’s no “eleventh-hour miracle” here—it just stays undone. Avoidance often sneaks in when there’s no immediate deadline to hold you accountable. 

Think about that performance review you’ve been meaning to schedule with a team member or that client you’ve been avoiding calling because you know it’s going to be an uncomfortable conversation. These tasks just sit there, lingering in the back of your mind, quietly adding to your stress.

The tricky thing about avoidance is that it feels harmless in the moment. There’s no pressure, so it’s easy to tell yourself, “I’ll deal with it later.” But the reality is, avoidance can become a silent productivity killer. 

The longer you ignore those tasks, the more they pile up—and the more anxiety they create. Without that looming deadline to push you into action, they can hang around indefinitely, draining your energy and focus.

For accountants, avoidance can be particularly dangerous. Maybe it’s a project you keep putting off because it feels overwhelming, or a client issue you’d rather not deal with because it’s complicated. 

Unlike procrastination, where you eventually feel the crunch to get things done, avoidance allows the task to stay invisible—until it suddenly isn’t, and you’re faced with bigger consequences.

Without a deadline to push you to get certain things done, you’re most likely avoiding, convincing yourself that you’ll get to it at some point.

Here’s the good news: just being able to spot the difference between procrastination and avoidance is a game-changer. It gives you the power to ask yourself, “Am I putting this off for now, or am I actively avoiding it altogether?” 

Once you know what’s really happening, you can start to address it head-on. And trust me, facing those tasks, even in small steps, feels way better than letting them loom in the background.

Once you can spot whether you’re procrastinating or avoiding, the next step is to understand the feelings that drive those behaviors. Let’s talk about what I call ‘permission-giving feelings.

The Concept Of “Permission-Giving Feelings”

Permission-giving feelings are the emotions that show up and quietly convince you it’s okay to put something off. For example, feelings like stress, overwhelm, confusion, anxiety, frustration, self-doubt, boredom, etc.

If you’ve been procrastinating, I promise you that one or more of these feelings was behind it.

The tricky part is that they feel completely reasonable in the moment, which is why we often don’t even realize they’re derailing us.

Here’s how it works. Let’s say you’ve had a long day, and you’re staring at a complex financial report that needs to get done. You feel overwhelmed—understandably so—and your brain pipes up with, “You’ll tackle this tomorrow when you’re more rested.” Sounds logical, right? 

But what happens? Tomorrow comes, and you’re still staring at the same report. That feeling of overwhelm gave you permission to delay, even though it didn’t magically make the task go away.

Another big one is anxiety. Imagine you’re dealing with a tricky tax situation for a client, and you’re worried about making a mistake. That little voice in your head might say, “I’ll handle this later when I’m feeling more confident.” 

But the longer you wait, the more stressful the task becomes, and the harder it feels to start. The feeling of anxiety that gave you permission to procrastinate ends up creating an even bigger obstacle.

And let’s not forget boredom. Not every task in accounting is thrilling (shocking, I know). When something feels tedious, like entering data into a spreadsheet for the hundredth time, it’s easy to think, “I’ll take a quick break and come back to this later.” 

Before you know it, that “quick break” has turned into scrolling through social media for 30 minutes, and the task is still sitting there, waiting for you.

As accountants, we often face these permission-giving feelings because so much of the work we do involves precision and problem-solving. Tackling big, uncomfortable tasks—like addressing a client’s messy records or starting a complicated audit—can feel overwhelming. It’s no wonder our brain jumps in with excuses to delay.

The thing is, these feelings aren’t bad or wrong. They’re just signals from your brain trying to keep you comfortable. 

But when you recognize them for what they are—temporary emotions, not truths—you can make a different choice. Instead of letting those feelings give you permission to procrastinate, you can acknowledge them and take a small step forward anyway.

So the next time you catch yourself thinking, “I’ll do this later,” take a moment to pause and ask yourself: What feeling is giving me permission to put this off? Awareness is the first step to breaking the pattern—and taking control of your day.

Recognizing these permission-giving feelings is the first step. But what’s next? That’s where my Smarter Accountant Procrastination Framework comes in to help you move forward with clarity and confidence.

The Smarter Accountant Procrastination Framework

Let me introduce you to something I call The Smarter Accountant Procrastination Framework. It’s a simple, three-step process—Awareness, Adjustment, and Action—that can help you tackle procrastination without the stress and overwhelm. 

Think of it as your go-to strategy for getting unstuck and moving forward, one step at a time.

Step 1: Awareness

The first step is Awareness—recognizing what’s really driving your procrastination. This means getting curious about the thoughts and feelings that are holding you back. 

Are you avoiding that client email because you’re anxious about their reaction? Are you putting off starting a big audit because it feels overwhelming? 

Awareness is about pausing and asking yourself, “What’s stopping me right now?” Once you identify the feeling—whether it’s fear, boredom, or perfectionism—you can start to take control.

Step 2: Adjustment

Next comes Adjustment—shifting your thoughts to make the task feel more manageable. For example, instead of thinking, “This project is way too big, and I don’t know where to start,” you could tell yourself, “I can take one small step and go from there.” 

It’s not about tackling the whole mountain at once; it’s about breaking it down into pieces that feel doable. This mindset shift is powerful because it reduces overwhelm and makes it easier to take action.

Step 3: Action

Finally, we get to Action—the part where you actually start moving forward. But here’s the key: you don’t need to do everything at once. Start with the smallest, simplest task. 

Maybe it’s opening the file, reviewing the first set of numbers, or drafting one email. Taking that first step creates momentum, and before you know it, you’re making progress. Momentum is your secret weapon when dealing with procrastination because it builds confidence and keeps you going.

The beauty of this framework is that it’s simple and repeatable. Anytime you catch yourself procrastinating, just walk through these three steps. 

Start with Awareness to identify what’s holding you back, move to Adjustment to reframe your thinking, and then take Action—no matter how small.

Thankfully, procrastination doesn’t have to control your day. With The Smarter Accountant Procrastination Framework, you can take charge, reduce your stress, and get things done—one step at a time.

Now that you know the framework, let me share a real-life example of how one of my clients applied these steps to overcome procrastination—and how it transformed her work and life.

Becoming a Smarter Accountant: Overcoming Procrastination

This client is a senior accountant who felt like she was constantly drowning. Deadlines were always looming, her task list never seemed to shrink, and no matter how hard she worked, she couldn’t shake that “I’m always behind” feeling. She told me she was exhausted, frustrated, and honestly questioning how she could keep going like this.

The thing is, her perfectionism was running the show. She was so afraid of making mistakes that she’d put off starting tasks altogether. And of course, that just led to late nights, missed family time, and a lot of stress. 

We started by getting clear on what was really happening—what I call Awareness. She began to notice how her thoughts, like “If I don’t do this perfectly, I’ll disappoint everyone,” were making everything feel so much harder than it needed to be. Just recognizing that pattern gave her some relief—it’s like she finally understood why she was feeling stuck.

Then we worked on Adjustment. Instead of aiming for perfection, she started to shift her mindset. I had her try thoughts like, “I can just start small,” or, “B+ work is still great work.” 

She said these little changes made a huge difference. Suddenly, the pressure to do everything perfectly started to ease, and she felt lighter, like she could actually take a breath.

Finally, we focused on Action. We broke her big, overwhelming projects into tiny, manageable steps. Instead of staring at her to-do list in panic, she’d pick one simple thing to do—like opening a file or reviewing one section of data. Once she got started, she realized the tasks weren’t as scary as she’d built them up to be and she created momentum.

After just a few weeks, she started finishing her work ahead of deadlines, she felt calmer, and for the first time in years, she was able to reclaim her evenings and weekends. She even told me she felt like herself again—confident, capable, and in control.

I hope her story inspires you because it’s proof that procrastination isn’t a permanent obstacle—it’s a habit that can be broken. You can conquer procrastination when you learn what’s driving it.

Okay, let’s wrap things up with a key takeaway and an action step you can start using today.

Key Takeaway and Action Item

The key takeaway is that procrastination isn’t about laziness—it’s typically your brain reacting to fear, overwhelm, or the need for perfection. By recognizing the emotions driving your procrastination, shifting your thoughts to reduce the pressure, and taking small, manageable actions, you can break the cycle and start moving forward with less stress and more confidence.

The next time you find yourself procrastinating, ask yourself, “What feeling is giving me permission to put this off, and how can I take one small step to move forward despite it?”

This question is designed to help you uncover the root cause of your procrastination. Often, procrastination isn’t just about the task itself—it’s about the emotions you’re experiencing in the moment. 

Maybe it’s fear of getting it wrong, overwhelm at how big the task feels, or boredom because the work seems tedious. By identifying the specific feeling that’s giving you permission to delay, you bring awareness to what’s really holding you back.

The second part of the question—“How can I take one small step to move forward despite it?”—shifts your focus from the emotion to action. It reminds you that you don’t have to fix the entire problem or complete the whole task in one go. Instead, you can take a small, manageable step that feels doable even with the emotion present. 

For example, if anxiety is holding you back from starting a complex project, your small step could be reviewing the instructions or organizing your materials.

This question will empower you to acknowledge your feelings without letting them control your actions. It’s a way to take back control of your time and make progress, even when procrastination is tempting.

Well, that’s what I have for you.  Thank you for joining me as I discussed overcoming procrastination.  I hope you’ve learned something that you can begin to apply, whether it’s at work or at home.

As I share all the time, you worked hard to become an accountant; it’s time to make it easier to be one.

So if you are struggling with any aspect of being an accountant, you can simply go to www.thesmarteraccountant.com/calendar and book a free session with me.

And make sure you check back each week as I help you go from being a stressed accountant to a Smarter Accountant.

Don’t forget to download The Smarter Accountant Tax Season Survival Checklist.  Here’s what you can expect:   Weekly action steps to keep you organized and on track, tips to avoid burnout and maintain your energy and practical strategies to manage client demands without sacrificing your sanity.

You can download it at https://thesmarteraccountant.com/survival-checklist/

Make sure you go to www.thesmarteraccountant.com and take The Smarter Accountant Quiz. You’re going to want to know if you’ve been underutilizing your accountant brain so that you have a starting point for becoming a Smarter Accountant..

Also, I would appreciate it if you could get the word out to other accountants about this podcast.  The more accountants find out about it, the more we can begin to change the narrative in the accounting profession.

The truth is that you’re already smart, but this podcast will show you how to be smarter.

Raising Your Rates With Confidence This Tax Season

Let’s talk about raising your rates. Does the thought of that make you a little uncomfortable? You’re not alone. Money—it’s such a tricky subject, isn’t it? And asking clients to pay more? That can bring up all kinds of feelings.

But here’s the thing: raising your rates isn’t just about numbers. It’s about acknowledging your worth, valuing the years of experience you’ve built, and respecting the energy you pour into your work every single day.

Think about it. How many times have you worked long hours, handled those last-minute client calls, or solved a major issue, only to realize your rates don’t reflect what you’re really bringing to the table? That’s frustrating, right?

And let’s be real—thoughts like, “What if clients push back?” or “Am I going to come off as greedy?” have probably crossed your mind. That’s totally normal. But here’s the truth: raising your rates is just part of running a sustainable business. Other professionals do it all the time as they grow and gain experience—why not you?

The key to doing this with confidence isn’t just about deciding on a new number; it’s about knowing your value and being able to communicate it in a way that feels honest and fair. When you’re clear on why this matters and you believe in what you do, raising your rates doesn’t feel as scary—it feels empowering.

If this sounds like something you’re ready to tackle, but you’re still feeling a bit hesitant, don’t worry. You’re in the right place. Let’s walk through this together, so this tax season, you can step into your worth with confidence.

Why Raising Your Rates is Essential This Tax Season

So, let me ask you—why not raise your rates? I know, it’s not an easy decision, and it’s definitely not something most of us jump into lightly. But here’s the thing: there are some really good reasons why now might be the perfect time to make that change.

First, let’s clear something up—this isn’t about being greedy. It’s about running a business that makes sense and reflects the value of your time and expertise. Think about it: inflation is hitting everyone, including you. The cost of everything—software, office supplies, you name it—is going up. Your rates need to keep up too, or you’re the one footing the bill.

And let’s not forget client expectations. People want more these days—faster responses, more personalized service, and extra support. If you’re delivering all that (and I’m sure you are), it’s only fair for your rates to reflect the level of service you’re providing.

Then there’s the self-worth piece. I know, it’s a heavy topic, but it matters. When you keep your rates low just to avoid rocking the boat, you’re sending a message—to yourself and to others—that your time and expertise aren’t as valuable as they really are. That’s not the message you want to put out there, is it?

Think about this: if a friend of yours—a contractor, consultant, or anyone else—told you they haven’t raised their rates in five years, despite all the experience and growth they’ve gained, what would you say? You’d probably tell them it’s time to update their prices. So, why shouldn’t the same apply to you?

Here’s another big reason: work-life balance. If you’re juggling too many clients at lower rates, burnout is just around the corner. Raising your rates allows you to work with fewer clients while still earning the same—or even more. That means you can provide better service to your clients and take better care of yourself. Win-win, right?

At the end of the day, raising your rates is about stepping up. It’s about recognizing your growth, the value you bring, and creating a business that works for you, not just everyone else.

But let’s be real—the hardest part isn’t crunching the numbers; it’s dealing with the mindset shifts that come with it. So, let’s dive into that next.

The Mindset Shift Needed to Raise Rates

Raising your rates isn’t just about updating an invoice—it’s about truly believing you’re worth what you’re charging and confidently standing behind that number. Let’s be honest: for most of us, that’s the hardest part.

If you’re like a lot of accountants, you care deeply about your clients. You want them to feel valued, and the thought of raising your rates might make you feel a little guilty. Maybe you’ve had thoughts like, “What if they think I’m being unreasonable?” or “Will they question my loyalty?” If that’s you, take a deep breath—you’re not alone. These feelings are so common in a profession built on relationships and helping others.

But here’s the truth: charging a fair rate doesn’t mean you’re letting your clients down. In fact, it’s the opposite. When you set rates that match the value of your work, you’re respecting not only yourself but also your clients. You’re showing them that you’re serious about delivering high-quality service and that you believe in what you bring to the table. And here’s the best part—clients can sense that confidence. It builds trust and strengthens the relationship.

Think about it this way: if someone walks into a Mercedes Benz dealership and says, “I can’t afford this,” the dealership doesn’t drop the price to match a Toyota Camry. Why? Because they know their value. They’re confident in the quality of their cars and the experience they provide. They trust that the right buyers will see that value.

The same idea applies to your services. Your work isn’t meant to fit every budget—and that’s okay. There are options out there for every price point, and you don’t need to be the “Camry” when you’re delivering Mercedes-level service.

Here’s the mindset shift that makes all the difference: instead of asking yourself, “Am I worth this much?” try asking, “Look at everything I’m offering—how could I not be?” Your experience, the problems you solve, the peace of mind you bring to your clients—it all has real value. When you focus on what you’re offering, it becomes so much easier to believe in your rates.

Now, I get it—another big fear is losing clients. Nobody wants that, especially when you’ve worked so hard to build those relationships. But here’s the thing: clients who truly value your work and trust your expertise are usually happy to pay a fair rate. And for those who aren’t? Sometimes letting go opens up space for clients who are a better fit for where your business is headed.

Raising your rates with confidence isn’t just about money. It’s about recognizing your worth, honoring your experience, and stepping into a place where you feel proud of the value you provide. Sure, it might take some time to get there. But as you shift your mindset and embrace your value, communicating your rates gets easier, and your confidence grows.

And here’s the best part—it’s not just you who benefits. Your clients do, too. When you feel good about what you’re charging, it shows in your work, your energy, and the service you provide.

Now that we’ve tackled the mindset shift, let’s take a look at how your brain plays into making changes like this—especially when it comes to money and self-worth.

The Brain Science Behind Rate Increases and Confidence

If the idea of raising your rates feels scary or uncomfortable, there’s a reason for it—it’s just how your brain works. But here’s the good news: understanding why this happens can help you take control and approach it with more confidence.

Your brain is wired to love familiarity. It craves routine and predictability because, from a survival perspective, that’s what keeps us safe. So, when you decide to raise your rates—a big change—it can feel like a threat to the status quo. Even though you know it’s a smart business decision, your brain might interpret it as risky, and suddenly, sending out that first invoice with your new rates feels downright nerve-wracking.

Then there’s the fear of rejection. This one runs deep. When you raise your rates, there’s always a chance that a client might push back or even walk away. And your brain? It doesn’t like rejection one bit. On a primal level, being rejected used to mean being cast out from a group, which could have serious consequences. Even though that’s not what’s happening here, your brain reacts the same way, making the idea of a client leaving feel much bigger than it really is.

But here’s the thing—once you recognize these automatic responses, you can start to manage them. It all begins with reframing your thoughts. Instead of thinking, “What if this doesn’t go well?” try, “This rate reflects the quality and value of the service I provide.” That simple shift sends a message to your brain that this isn’t a threat—it’s an empowering move forward.

And here’s where practice comes in. Each time you confidently share your new rates, you’re building a habit. Over time, your brain starts to adapt, and what once felt uncomfortable begins to feel natural—even exciting.

It’s important to remember that feeling a little discomfort doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong. It’s simply your brain adjusting to growth. And each time you push through that hesitation, you’re training your brain to support your decisions and reinforcing your belief in your value.

So, if you’re feeling unsure or hesitant, know that it’s part of the process. You’re stretching, growing, and building the confidence to stand behind your worth. And trust me—this gets easier with time.

Next, let’s tackle how to handle client pushback and why it’s totally normal.

Understanding Client Pushback and Why It’s Normal

Let’s be real—one of the biggest fears about raising your rates is, “What will my clients think?” It’s completely normal to feel that way, especially when you’ve worked hard to build strong relationships. No one wants to risk upsetting their clients or jeopardizing those connections.

But here’s the thing: client pushback doesn’t mean you’re making a mistake. In fact, it’s actually pretty common—and it can even be a great opportunity to reinforce the value you bring.

When you inform a client about a rate increase, you might hear things like, “Why the change?” or “Can we stick to the old rate?” And yeah, those questions can feel a little uncomfortable in the moment. But most of the time, they’re not rejections. They’re just your clients trying to understand your decision. It’s a conversation, not a confrontation.

Here’s a fresh perspective: when clients ask about a rate increase, they’re giving you the perfect opening to highlight the value of your work. It’s your chance to remind them why they chose you in the first place. You can explain the dedication, expertise, and results you bring to the table. Often, that extra clarity is all they need to see the rate increase as fair and reasonable.

Pushback can actually build trust. When you respond with confidence and transparency, it shows your clients that you’ve thought this through and that your rates are about fairness—not just numbers. They’ll see your professionalism and your commitment to providing top-notch service.

Now, let’s be honest—there’s always a chance that a client may resist or even decide to move on. And while that can feel tough, it’s not a failure. Sometimes, letting go of a client who isn’t aligned with your new rates makes room for one who is—a client who truly values your work and is excited to invest in your services.

So, if you’re feeling nervous about pushback, remember that it’s totally normal. More importantly, it’s an opportunity. With a clear and confident approach, these conversations can actually strengthen your relationships and reinforce the worth of what you provide.

The right clients will recognize your value and understand that raising your rates allows you to continue delivering exceptional service. And who knows? These discussions might even deepen your client relationships in ways you didn’t expect.

Next, let’s set some meaningful goals for this rate increase.

Setting Goals for Your Rate Increase

You might be wondering, “Do I really need goals just to raise my rates?” The short answer? Absolutely. Setting clear goals isn’t just helpful—it can make all the difference in how confidently you approach this change.

Raising your rates isn’t just about updating a number. It’s about deciding what kind of business you want to build, the clients you want to work with, and even the life you want for yourself. Goals give you that clarity and sense of purpose, so you can make this decision with intention instead of hesitation.

Start by asking yourself: What do I want to achieve by raising my rates? This isn’t about justifying the decision to anyone else. It’s about having a clear, personal reason for making the change. Maybe you want to reduce your workload, working with fewer clients at higher rates, so you can focus on providing exceptional service. Or maybe you’ve been wanting to invest in better tools, training, or resources to elevate your client experience. Whatever your reasons are, putting them into words can keep you focused, especially if self-doubt starts to creep in.

Another goal worth considering is how this change could improve your work-life balance. Are your current rates forcing you to stretch yourself too thin, juggling too many clients just to make ends meet? Imagine having a more manageable client load while still earning what you need—or even more. A rate increase isn’t just about earning more money; it’s about creating a workload that’s sustainable for you and beneficial for your clients.

And don’t forget to think long-term. Where do you see your business a year from now? Five years from now? Maybe you want to grow steadily, building a client base that truly values your expertise. Or perhaps you’re looking to specialize in a niche area, where your higher rates reflect the advanced skills and results you provide. Connecting your rate increase to your bigger picture can help you stay motivated and see the “why” behind it all.

Setting these goals isn’t just practical—it’s empowering. When you know exactly why you’re raising your rates, it’s so much easier to communicate your decision and stand behind it without hesitation. Your goals serve as a reminder that this isn’t a random or spur-of-the-moment decision. It’s a thoughtful, intentional step toward building the kind of business—and life—you really want.

Take a few minutes to write it down: What does this rate increase mean for my business, my clients, and my overall quality of life? When you’re clear on what you’re working toward, you’ll feel so much more confident about the process. And later, when you look back, you’ll be able to say, “That was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.”

Now, let me share a story about a client who went through this process and learned how to raise her rates with confidence.

Becoming a Smarter Accountant: Raising Her Rates With Confidence

I’ve worked with so many accounting entrepreneurs who’ve struggled with raising their rates. Let me share the story of one CPA client—it’s a great example of what’s possible when you approach this with the right mindset.

When we first started working together, she was feeling stuck. She’d been running her practice for years, had incredibly loyal clients, and had built strong relationships. But despite all her experience and hard work, she hadn’t adjusted her rates in years.

Every time the thought crossed her mind, doubts would flood in: “What if they think I’m being unreasonable? What if they leave?” She worried that raising her rates might make her clients question her loyalty.

Because of this, she found herself juggling way too many clients, working long hours, and feeling burned out. Her workload was overwhelming, and she was sacrificing her personal life to keep up. Deep down, she knew something had to change, but she didn’t know where to start.

The first thing we worked on was shifting her mindset around her value. We spent time digging into the impact her work had on her clients. She started to see how her expertise and dedication gave them peace of mind—something they couldn’t put a price on. This realization was a game-changer. She finally understood that her rates needed to reflect the quality and value she was providing.

Next, we tackled her client conversations. We practiced responses that felt natural, respectful, and confident. She was nervous at first, but when she started having those conversations, something surprising happened. Most of her clients were supportive. They valued her work enough to invest in her services.

A few clients decided to move on, and while that wasn’t easy, it opened the door for new clients—clients who respected her expertise and were happy to pay her higher rates.

It didn’t take long for the changes to kick in. With a lighter workload and clients who truly valued her, she felt more energized, more focused, and, most importantly, more balanced in her life. She even told me, “This has changed everything.”

I hope her story inspires you. Raising your rates isn’t just about numbers. It’s about honoring your worth, valuing the incredible service you provide, and building a business that works for you as much as it does for your clients.

When you’re clear on your value and confident in communicating it, you’ll start making decisions that bring more balance, energy, and fulfillment into your work.

Now, let’s wrap this up with today’s key takeaway and an action item for the week ahead.

Key Takeaway and Action Item

Here’s the big takeaway from today: Raising your rates is more than just a financial decision—it’s a way to honor your expertise, reflect the quality of the service you provide, and build a sustainable business that supports you and your clients. When you shift your mindset about your value and prepare for those client conversations, setting rates that align with your worth becomes a confident, empowering move.

So here’s your action item for the week: Take a moment to ask yourself, What value do I consistently bring to my clients that should be reflected in my rates?

Think about it—what results do you help your clients achieve? How does your work give them peace of mind? What expertise do you bring to solve challenges they can’t handle on their own? When you focus on the real value you deliver every day, it becomes clear that your rates should reflect that level of service.

This small shift in perspective can be a game-changer. It not only boosts your confidence but also sets you up to communicate your rates with clarity and professionalism.

Take the time to reflect on this—you might be surprised by what you discover. And remember, this is about more than just numbers. It’s about recognizing and owning your worth. 

Well, that’s what I have for you today. Thank you for joining me as I discussed raising your rates with confidence this tax season. I hope you’re walking away with a fresh perspective on what it means to honor your expertise and the value you bring to your clients.

As I always say, you’ve worked hard to become an accountant; it’s time to make it easier to be one.

If you’d like to discuss anything you’re struggling with, you can schedule a free 30-minute call with me at  https://thesmarteraccountant.com/calendar/

Also, if you haven’t already, make sure to take The Smarter Accountant Quiz at www.thesmarteraccountant.com to see if you’ve been underutilizing your accountant brain. It’s a great starting point to see where you are and how you can improve.

Lastly, if you’ve found today’s episode helpful, I’d really appreciate it if you could spread the word to other accountants. The more we get this message out, the more we can change the narrative in the accounting profession and help accountants everywhere.

The truth is that you’re already smart, but this podcast will show you how to be smarter.

The Accountant’s Playbook for Handling Difficult Conversations

Let me ask you something—have you ever dreaded a conversation so much that you kept pushing it off? Maybe it was with a client who made a mistake, a coworker who’s missing deadlines, or even your boss piling on too much work. 

We’ve all been there. Those conversations sit in the back of your mind like a ticking clock, but avoiding them doesn’t make the problem go away. 

The thing is, most of us aren’t taught how to handle these moments. It’s not like there’s a chapter in Accounting 101 called “How to Talk About Hard Stuff Without Making It Worse.” 

For accountants, this is a big deal because so much of our work relies on precision and deadlines. Whether it’s addressing a client who keeps sending documents late during tax season or discussing a colleague’s repeated errors in audit schedules, the stakes are high. 

The truth is that how we approach these moments can mean the difference between a smooth workflow and an avalanche of stress later on. That’s where this playbook comes in. 

Today, I’m giving you a step-by-step guide to handling tough conversations with confidence, clarity, and ease. We’re going to start by looking at why these conversations feel so hard in the first place—spoiler alert: it has everything to do with how your brain is wired. Let’s dive in. 

Play 1: Understand the Brain Science Behind Tough Conversations 

Tough conversations feel uncomfortable for a reason—it’s not because you’re bad at them. It’s your brain doing exactly what it’s wired to do: protect you. 

Think about it—why does your brain treat telling a client about mistakes like facing a hungry lion? It’s your Toddler brain, the built-in alarm system that kept us safe back in the day. But now, it can’t tell the difference between actual danger and an awkward conversation. 

Here’s the thing: your brain processes perceived threats in about 200 milliseconds—faster than you blink. That’s why avoiding tough conversations feels automatic. But avoiding them doesn’t protect you—it holds you back. 

For accountants, addressing things like missed deadlines or feedback isn’t life-or-death. These moments are opportunities to solve problems, build trust, and improve relationships. So, how do you calm your brain down? 

First, pause. When that discomfort hits, take a deep breath and remind yourself, “This isn’t dangerous—it’s just a conversation.” 

Next, reframe it. Instead of seeing confrontation, focus on collaboration. What’s the goal? How can this help both of you move forward? 

And here’s a helpful trick: name what’s happening. Saying, “This is just my Toddler brain overreacting,” can reduce emotional intensity by up to 50%, according to research. 

The bottom line is that your brain’s reaction is normal—it’s just a habit. And like any habit, it can change. When you understand what’s happening, you’ll feel more confident stepping into tough conversations. 

Now that we’ve covered why these moments feel so hard, let’s move on to preparing your mindset so you can handle them with clarity and control.


Play 2: Prepare Your Mindset 

Before you step into a tough conversation, the first thing to do is get your head in the right place. Think of this as setting the stage for how you want the conversation to go. 

If you walk in feeling scattered or defensive, that energy will spill over. But if you’re clear and calm, it sets a totally different tone. 

Start by setting an intention. Ask yourself, “What does success look like here?” And no, it’s not about proving the other person wrong or getting them to apologize. Success might mean finding a solution, building trust, or simply clarifying expectations. 

Knowing what you want keeps you focused and makes it easier to guide the conversation in a productive direction. 

Next, check in with your emotions. How do you want to feel during this conversation? Calm? Confident? Curious? Pick one and think about how you’ll maintain it, even if things get tense. 

For example, if calm is your goal, remind yourself to pause and breathe if the conversation starts to heat up. 

Finally, plan your points. This isn’t about scripting every word—it’s just about knowing the key things you want to cover. Think of it like creating a map: if the conversation veers off course, you’ll have a clear way to bring it back on track. 

Studies show that people who visualize a positive outcome before a difficult conversation are 30% more likely to stay calm and focused. When you take the time to prepare your mindset, you’re not just getting ready for the conversation—you’re giving yourself the tools to lead it with clarity and control. 

Now that you’ve got your head in the game, let’s talk about how to set the stage for collaboration. 

Play 3: Set the Stage for Collaboration 

Let’s talk about how you start a conversation because it really does set the tone for everything that follows. If you open on the right foot, even tricky topics can feel more manageable and productive. 

Did you know the first 30 seconds of a conversation set the emotional tone for the rest of it? People decide whether to engage or defend based on how you start. 

Here’s the thing: if you come in hot, frustrated, or pointing fingers, the other person will likely go on the defensive—it’s just human nature. But if you approach it with calm and curiosity, you create space for teamwork instead of conflict. 

For example, let’s say you’re reviewing a client’s bookkeeping and notice repeated errors. Saying, “You need to fix these mistakes,” might make them feel defensive and embarrassed. 

But shifting to, “Let’s review this together and find a way to simplify how these are categorized moving forward,” softens the message and invites collaboration. 

The key is to start by asking yourself what you really want to achieve. Is it about fixing an issue, clarifying expectations, or adjusting behavior? When you know your goal, it’s easier to steer the conversation in the right direction. 

Another tip—don’t make assumptions. Instead of saying, “Why didn’t you meet the deadline?” try, “I noticed the deadline was missed—was something getting in the way?” It softens the tone and shows you’re open to understanding their perspective. 

When people feel heard and respected, they’re much more likely to work with you instead of against you. Starting the conversation this way makes everything that follows smoother and more productive. 

Now that we’ve set the stage for collaboration, let’s talk about the power of words. 

Play 4: The Power of Words 

Let’s be real—words are powerful. The way you phrase something can either build a bridge or put up a wall. Collaborative language pulls people in, while accusatory words almost guarantee resistance. 

In fact, research shows that replacing ‘you should’ with ‘let’s consider’ makes people 80% more receptive to feedback, according to linguistic research. Think about it—if someone said to you, “You should have met the deadline,” wouldn’t you immediately feel defensive? 

Now imagine they said, “Let’s consider what can we do to meet deadlines moving forward.” That small shift changes the whole vibe. Instead of feeling blamed, you feel like part of a solution. 

Here’s another example: swapping, “This is wrong,” for, “Let’s review this together and make adjustments.” The first makes you feel judged, while the second makes it feel like teamwork. 

Even with tough topics, collaborative language creates a sense of safety and partnership. These small changes might seem subtle, but they make a huge difference. 

Words like “we” and “let’s” send a message that you’re in it together. And when the conversation feels collaborative, the other person is far more likely to engage constructively. 

This is especially true for accountants because whether you’re pointing out an error to a client or addressing an issue with a colleague, the way you choose your words can completely change how the conversation unfolds. 

The best part is that collaborative language isn’t just polite—it’s strategic. It helps you get your message across without triggering defensiveness or shutting the other person down. When you show that you’re working toward a shared goal, it creates trust and moves things forward. 

So the next time you need to have a difficult conversation, think about how you can weave words like “we” and “let’s” into your message. Not only will it make your point clearer, but it’ll also help the other person feel included and valued. And that’s how you turn a hard conversation into a productive one. 

Besides the power of your words, it’s also important to master the art of listening. 

Play 5: Master the Art of Listening 

The truth is that listening might seem simple, but it’s actually the secret weapon of effective communication. When people feel heard, their defenses drop, and the conversation becomes much easier to navigate. 

According to Harvard Business Review, people who feel actively listened to are 60% more likely to be open to feedback. Listening isn’t just about sitting quietly while the other person talks. It’s about showing them you’re paying attention and that their perspective matters. 

A great way to do this is through active listening. Paraphrase what they’ve said and ask for confirmation: “What I’m hearing is that this is an issue—did I get that right?” It’s a small step with a big impact. 

For accountants, this is a total game-changer. Whether you’re clarifying a client’s needs or discussing team priorities, careful listening avoids misunderstandings and builds trust. It shows you’re not rushing through the conversation—you’re genuinely invested in understanding the issue. 

But listening isn’t just about gathering facts. It’s about creating a moment where the other person feels valued and respected. When you listen with intention, you send the message, “I care about what you’re saying, and I want to get this right.” That simple act of listening can build trust faster than almost anything else. 

In high-stress situations we often face, this skill is especially critical. Think about a client frustrated over a missed deadline or a coworker struggling with their tasks. By listening carefully and reflecting back what you’ve heard, you diffuse tension and shift the conversation toward collaboration. 

Here’s the best part: listening doesn’t just help the other person—it helps you too. When you really understand their perspective, it’s so much easier to find common ground and move forward. Instead of guessing or assuming, you’re working with the full picture. 

For example, if you’ve ever left a conversation wondering, ‘Did I really hear what they were trying to say?’ then active listening is the answer. It’s not just polite—it’s a game-changer for building trust. 

Next time you’re in a tough conversation, try this: pause, paraphrase, and ask, ‘Did I get that right?’ It’s amazing how much clarity and connection you’ll create with just a few words. 

Last but not least, let’s talk about the final play in the playbook – closing with confidence. 

Play 6: Close with Confidence 

The truth is that how you wrap up a conversation is just as important as how you start it. The way you close can leave everyone feeling more confident about what comes next—or leave them wondering what just happened. 

A clear and positive wrap-up is key. It ties everything together and reassures the other person that you’re both on the same page. 

You might say something like, “Thanks for working through this with me—I think we’ve made great progress.” Or, “Let’s set a follow-up to make sure this stays on track.” Simple, right? But it makes a big difference. 

Even when the conversation is tough, ending on a good note reinforces the relationship. It shows you value their effort and that you’re committed to moving forward together. You’re basically saying, “We’ve tackled this, and we’re in a better place because of it.” 

You may have heard the expression, “People don’t remember what you said, they remember how you made them feel.” Well, it’s true – people remember how they feel at the end of a conversation. 

If you close with positivity and clarity, you leave a lasting impression of collaboration and trust. That’s a huge win, especially in professional relationships. 

A strong close also keeps the door open for future conversations. It’s like planting the seeds for ongoing collaboration. Even if the issue isn’t completely resolved, ending with gratitude or next steps shows that progress is being made. 

So, the next time you’re wrapping up a tough conversation, think about how you can leave it on a high note. Whether it’s thanking them for their input or setting a plan to follow up, a confident close can turn any conversation into an opportunity to build trust and connection.

Becoming a Smarter Accountant: Examples Of Mastering Difficult Conversations

Let me share a few moments from my own career. As accountants, we’re no strangers to tough conversations. I’ve had my share—some went well, and others taught me valuable lessons about what not to do. 

But here’s the thing: every one of them was an opportunity to grow, build trust, and refine how I approach challenges. I want to show you how I’ve used this playbook in my own journey.

Example 1: Addressing a Client’s Repeated Errors

I’ll never forget this one client who consistently sent in messy reports. I knew I had to say something, but I didn’t want to risk damaging the relationship. So, I started by reframing the situation as an opportunity to improve how we worked together.

I said something like, ‘I’ve noticed a few issues in the reports, and it’s slowing things down on my side. Can we take a look together to figure out a process that works better for both of us?’

Their response surprised me—they admitted their software wasn’t working properly and asked for advice on improving their workflow. What could’ve been a conflict turned into an opportunity to help them and make my life easier.

Example 2: Setting Boundaries with a Manager

Early in my career, I had a manager who constantly handed me extra work at the last minute. I was drowning but didn’t know how to say ‘no’ without sounding like I couldn’t handle it. One day, I decided to try a different approach.

I said, “I really want to do my best on all these projects, but my workload is piling up, and I’m worried about missing deadlines. Could we go over what’s most urgent so I can prioritize the right way?”

To my surprise, they were open to it. We adjusted a few deadlines, and I learned how important it is to speak up before the issue became even bigger.

The reason why this worked is that I wasn’t complaining—I showed I cared about delivering quality work. That shifted the tone from resistance to collaboration.

So hopefully you can see that with just a few tweaks to how you approach these conversations, you can turn potentially awkward moments into opportunities. These examples are proof that even the toughest conversations can be handled with confidence when you take the time to manage your mindset and choose your words carefully.

Now I’m going to share the key takeaway from today and an action item for the upcoming week.

Key Takeaway and Action Item

The key takeaway here is that tough conversations don’t have to feel so tough when you understand what’s really going on. Your brain might be wired to treat these moments like danger zones, but the truth is, they’re opportunities to solve problems, build trust, and strengthen relationships. 

When you work with your brain instead of fighting against it, prepare your mindset, use the right words, listen actively, and close with confidence, you can turn even the most awkward conversations into productive ones.

Now, here’s a question to ask yourself before your next conversation: “What’s my goal here, and how can I approach this in a way that builds trust?”

Think about it—having clarity on your goal helps you stay focused, even when things feel uncomfortable. Are you aiming to solve a problem? Build a stronger relationship? Clear up confusion? Once you know your goal, it becomes easier to frame your words, choose a collaborative tone, and really listen to the other person.

Why does this work? Because when you approach a conversation with intention and trust-building in mind, it shifts your energy. You’re not just trying to get something off your chest—you’re creating space for both of you to move forward. And that’s the real game-changer.

So next time, take a moment to pause, ask yourself this question, and let it guide how you show up. 

Well, that’s what I have for you.  Thank you for joining me as I discussed the accountant’s playbook for mastering difficult conversations.  I love teaching topics that we all have to deal with as accountants, but in a way that you might not have heard of before.

Again, my goal is to help smart accountants become smarter, so I hope you’ve learned something that you can begin to apply in your career or in your personal life.

If you’d like to discuss how to become a Smarter Accountant, you can schedule a free 30-minute call with me at  https://thesmarteraccountant.com/calendar/

And don’t forget to check back each week for more tips and strategies to help you go from being a stressed accountant to a Smarter Accountant.

Also, if you haven’t already, make sure to take The Smarter Accountant Quiz at www.thesmarteraccountant.com to see if you’ve been underutilizing your accountant brain. It’s a great starting point to see where you are and how you can improve.

Lastly, if you’ve found today’s episode helpful, I’d really appreciate it if you could spread the word to other accountants. The more we get this message out, the more we can change the narrative in the accounting profession and help accountants everywhere.

The truth is that you’re already smart, but this podcast will show you how to be smarter.

The Brain Science Behind “The Smarter Year Framework”

So, let me ask you something. Have you ever noticed how every January feels like a fresh start? It’s like we turn the page to a new calendar, and suddenly, we’re filled with this rush of motivation. 

This is it. This is the year we’re going to get it all together. We’re going to stick to the plan, be super productive, and finally feel like we’re on top of things.

And then… February rolls around. And it’s like—what happened? 

The excitement fizzles out, old habits sneak back in, and we’re right back to feeling overwhelmed, playing catch-up, and wondering where all that “new year, new me” energy went. Sound familiar?

My husband goes to the gym 3 times a week and always laughs about how the gym is more crowded in January and then it goes back to “normal” in February.  It’s completely normal to start a new year excited, with the best of intentions and then fizzle out pretty quickly.

Here’s the thing—this doesn’t happen because you lack willpower or discipline. It’s not because you’re lazy or bad at following through. 

It’s because of your brain. Your brain is actually wired to resist change, and that’s why all those big plans tend to fall apart once the initial excitement wears off.

But don’t worry—there’s a smarter way to approach the year ahead.

Today, I’m going to share something I call The Smarter Year Framework. It’s a simple, three-step approach that’s going to help you set yourself up for success next year without falling into the same traps that derail most people. 

And here’s what makes this episode different: we’re going to look at why this framework works through the lens of brain science.

Because when you understand how your brain actually works, you can stop fighting it and start using it to your advantage. You’ll be able to create real, lasting change—change that doesn’t just look good in January but actually sticks all year long.

So if you’re tired of repeating the same old cycle and you’re ready to set yourself up for a year that feels different, stick with me. I promise—this isn’t about doing more or working harder. It’s about working smarter by understanding your brain and using it to create the results you really want.

The Brain Science Behind Why We Struggle to Plan Effectively

Here’s something most accountants don’t realize: your brain loves the familiar. It doesn’t care if the familiar is stress, overcommitment, or constantly feeling behind. If that’s the pattern it knows, that’s where it wants to stay—because familiar equals safe, and safe means less effort.

So when you sit down in January with all those big, shiny plans for the year—“I’m going to work out every day, stay on top of emails, grow my business, spend more time with my family”—your brain freaks out. New habits and new plans require energy, and your brain’s first response is, “Whoa, this looks like work. Let’s just stick to what we know.”

This is exactly why you keep ending up in the same spot year after year, even though you’ve promised yourself that this time will be different. It’s not because you’re not trying hard enough. It’s because your brain is working against you, keeping you locked into those familiar patterns.

And let’s talk about overplanning for a second—because I know a lot of us are guilty of this. We write out these huge to-do lists, filled with every single thing we think we should be doing. We convince ourselves that if we just pack more into our day—more goals, more tasks, more commitments—then somehow everything will fall into place.

But here’s the problem: your brain isn’t built to focus on everything at once. It just can’t. When you overload your to-do list, your brain gets overwhelmed, and instead of taking action, it freezes. 

That’s when procrastination sneaks in. You stare at the list, feel completely drained before you even start, and suddenly, you’re doing anything other than what you planned. Sound familiar?

The truth is, there is a smarter way accountants can approach the year. It’s not about adding more—it’s about being intentional, choosing the few things that actually matter, and letting go of the rest. That’s what makes it a smarter year, not just a busier one.

And that’s where The Smarter Year Framework comes in. It’s designed to work with your brain, not against it. We’re going to start by disrupting those old patterns—because if you want to change how next year feels, you have to get clear on what’s working, what isn’t, and what you need to let go of.

The Smarter Year Framework: Step-by-Step with Brain Science

Now that you know why your brain keeps tripping you up, let’s talk about how to work with it instead of against it. That’s where The Smarter Year Framework comes in. 

It’s a simple, three-step process to help you plan intentionally, get clear on what matters, and set yourself up for a year that actually works.

And the best part is that each step is backed by brain science. Let’s break it down.

Step 1: Reflect

The first step is simple, but it’s one most accountants skip: taking time to reflect on the year you just lived through.

Reflection isn’t just about what you accomplished—it’s about understanding what worked, what didn’t, and how it felt. This is the smarter way accountants can break free from autopilot and take back control of their year.

When you pause to reflect, you interrupt that autopilot. You activate the part of the brain I refer to as the Supervising Parent—the decision-making part of your brain—which forces clarity and awareness. Instead of mindlessly jumping into the new year, you get intentional about what you want to change.

Here are two simple questions to guide you:

  • What energized me this year?
  • What drained me?

Think about that for a minute. What were the moments where you felt focused, productive, or fulfilled? And what were the tasks or habits that left you feeling completely drained or resentful? Be honest here, because those answers are going to be your starting point for everything else.

Step 2: Release

This is the part that can feel uncomfortable, but it’s where the real magic happens: letting go of the tasks, commitments, or mindsets that no longer serve you.

Here’s the thing—your brain hates letting go. It’s called loss aversion. Your brain sees anything you let go of as a loss, and it panics: “What if I regret this? What if I miss out?” That’s why you keep saying yes to things you don’t want to do or holding onto commitments that drain your energy.

But here’s the brain science truth: holding onto unnecessary “mental clutter” eats up your cognitive energy. It’s like having too many tabs open on your computer. You think you’re multitasking, but you’re just slowing everything down.

When you release what isn’t working—whether that’s a low-value task, an unfulfilling project, or even a mindset like “I have to do it all myself”—you create space. You free up the energy and focus you need to work on what does matter.

So here’s your question:

  • What am I ready to let go of next year?

This could be a task, a habit, or even a mindset that’s holding you back. Whatever it is, releasing it is going to feel like taking a weight off your shoulders.

Step 3: Refocus

Once you’ve reflected and released, it’s time to refocus. This is where you get clear on the few priorities that will truly move the needle for you next year—both personally and professionally.

The brain science behind this is simple: your brain thrives on focused, high-impact work. Trying to juggle too many priorities at once? That’s just going to overwhelm your brain, slow you down, and make you feel scattered.

When you refocus on fewer, high-value goals, you reduce mental clutter. You’re aligning your brain’s limited energy with the outcomes that actually matter.

Here’s the key: instead of trying to do everything, pick one to three priorities for the year. Ask yourself:

  • What are the 1–3 things that matter most to me next year?

Maybe it’s growing your business by focusing on high-value clients. Maybe it’s improving your work-life balance by learning how to effectively manage your time and set better boundaries. Or maybe it’s prioritizing your own growth—personally or professionally.

The point is, when you refocus, you give yourself permission to let the small stuff go. You stop spreading yourself too thin and start making real progress where it matters.

So, to recap:

  1. Reflect: Interrupt autopilot and get clear on what worked and what didn’t.
  2. Release: Let go of the things that are draining you to create space for what matters.
  3. Refocus: Choose the few priorities that will have the biggest impact next year.

Now that you know the framework, let’s talk about why it works—how understanding your brain makes this approach so much smarter.

Why This Framework Works Better Than Traditional Goal Setting

Here’s the problem with most goal-setting approaches: they completely ignore how your brain actually works.

You’ve probably been there—you start the year by setting big, ambitious goals, mapping out every detail, and feeling super motivated. But a month or two in, you’re overwhelmed, avoiding the plan you made, and wondering why you can’t just stick to it.

It’s not your fault. Traditional goal setting tries to force the brain into overdrive, which almost always backfires. 

The brain doesn’t like being overloaded. It’s wired to conserve energy, which means the second you try to “do it all,” it pushes back. That’s when overwhelm hits, procrastination takes over, and you find yourself scrolling your phone instead of making progress.

The Smarter Year Framework works because it respects how your brain operates. Instead of fighting against it, you’re working with it. 

Here’s how:

  • Reflection disrupts autopilot – Your brain loves habits and patterns, even if they’re not serving you. Reflecting on the year you just lived through forces you to pause and take stock. It stops you from blindly repeating the same mistakes and helps you make better, intentional decisions moving forward.
  • Releasing removes mental clutter – Think of your brain like a desk. If it’s covered in piles of paper, random tasks, and outdated commitments, it’s impossible to focus. Letting go of what doesn’t matter is like clearing off that desk. Suddenly, you can think clearly, prioritize, and get things done without feeling like your brain is bursting at the seams.
  • Refocusing directs energy toward high-value actions – Your brain can only handle so much attention and focus in a day. By narrowing your priorities to the few things that actually matter, you’re telling your brain, “This is where we’re going to direct our energy.” It’s like putting gas in the tank instead of spinning your wheels on things that won’t move you forward.

Here’s the best part: this isn’t about doing more. It’s about making your brain work smarter for you. When you stop trying to cram 20 goals into your year and focus on what really moves the needle, you’ll not only feel less overwhelmed, but you’ll also see real, meaningful progress.

And isn’t that the goal? To get to the end of the year and feel like you didn’t just check boxes—you actually accomplished something that mattered to you?

Now that you know why this works, let me share a real-life story of someone who used this framework and completely transformed the way they approached their year

Becoming a Smarter Accountant: The Smarter Year Framework In Action

I worked with a client last year who, on the surface, was doing well—growing her business, making good money—but underneath, she was burned out and overwhelmed. She was working late nights, juggling too many low-value clients, and saying “yes” to everything because she thought being busy meant being successful.

When she stopped to reflect, she realized much of her time and energy was going to things that drained her. She’d fallen into autopilot and hadn’t questioned it. 

That’s when we moved to release—she let go of difficult clients, delegated tasks that didn’t need her attention, and, most importantly, dropped the mindset that she had to do it all.

Finally, she refocused on the few priorities that mattered most: higher-value clients, growing her advisory services, and setting clear boundaries around her work hours. By working with her brain instead of against it, she stayed consistent and made real progress.

In just a few months, she was working fewer hours but making more money, feeling more in control and less stressed. She didn’t just work smarter—she approached her year like a smarter accountant, and the results proved it.

Whether you’re an entrepreneur or an employee, whether you’re in public or private accounting, this framework will help you have a better year.

Now, let’s wrap this up with a key takeaway you can use to start creating your smarter year.

Key Takeaway and Action Item

Alright, here’s the big takeaway: if you want next year to feel different—if you want to stop spinning your wheels and start making real progress—you need to reflect, release, and refocus

The bottom line is that when you work with your brain instead of against it, you create a year that’s not just productive but intentional and fulfilling.

So here’s a little challenge for you: What’s one thing you’re ready to let go of next year? 

Maybe it’s a task that drains you, a commitment that doesn’t align with your priorities, or even a mindset that’s been holding you back. Take a minute and really think about that. What’s one thing you can release to make space for what matters most?

And if you’re ready to take this work even deeper and set yourself up for a smarter year, I’d love to help. Head over to www.thesmarteraccountant.com/calendar and book a free session with me. We’ll work together to create a plan that actually works for you—so you can stop feeling overwhelmed and start seeing real results.

Because here’s the truth: you don’t need to do more next year—you just need to do what matters. That is how you have a smarter year.

Well, that’s what I have for you.  Thank you for joining me as I discussed the brain science behind the Smarter Year Framework.  I hope I’ve given you something to consider as one year ends and a new year begins.  

Again, my goal is to help smart accountants become smarter, so I hope you’ve learned something that you can begin to apply in your career or in your personal life.

If you are struggling with any aspect of being an accountant, you can simply go to www.thesmarteraccountant.com/calendar and book a free session with me.

And make sure you check back each week as I help you go from being a stressed accountant to a Smarter Accountant.

Make sure you go to www.thesmarteraccountant.com and take The Smarter Accountant Quiz. You’re going to want to know if you’ve been underutilizing your accountant brain so that you have a starting point for becoming a Smarter Accountant.

Also, I would appreciate it if you could get the word out to other accountants about this podcast.  The more accountants find out about it, the more we can begin to change the narrative in the accounting profession.

The truth is that you’re already smart, but this podcast will show you how to be smarter.

Changing The Narrative In The Accounting Profession

At the end of each podcast, I always say, “Also, I would appreciate it if you could get the word out to other accountants about this podcast. The more accountants find out about it, the more we can begin to change the narrative in the accounting profession.” And there’s a reason I repeat this every week.

The accounting profession is built on traditions and long-standing beliefs that often go unquestioned. Many accountants are struggling with stress, overwhelm, and burnout because they’ve accepted these norms without realizing there’s another way. 

This podcast is about offering a different perspective—a way to challenge those beliefs and create a more sustainable, fulfilling career. But for that message to spread, we need more accountants to hear it.

If you’ve been in the accounting profession for a while, you’ve probably heard plenty of phrases like “tax season is stressful” or “the work never really slows down.” These beliefs get passed around so often that they start to feel like facts. 

But what if they’re not? What if the stress we experience as accountants isn’t just part of the job but a result of the stories we’ve been telling ourselves for years?

In many ways, the accounting profession has become stuck in these old narratives. We see others around us feeling stressed and overwhelmed, and we naturally mirror those feelings. 

In fact, it’s human nature to pick up on the emotions of those in our environment—especially in a field like accounting, where long hours, tight deadlines, and high expectations are the norm. But when we do this without questioning it, we end up reinforcing a belief system that might not actually serve us. 

Whether it’s tax season, year-end reviews, or managing difficult clients, we’ve been conditioned to accept that accounting comes with constant pressure. We’ve been taught to believe that if you’re not stressed, maybe you’re not doing enough.

The problem with these narratives is that they become so deeply ingrained that we stop questioning them altogether. They get passed down from one generation of accountants to the next, without anyone taking a step back to ask, “Does it really have to be this way?” 

It’s almost as if we wear our stress like a badge of honor, something that proves our dedication to the job. But at what cost? Burnout, overwhelm, and dissatisfaction have become widespread in the profession, and the very things we’ve been led to believe are necessary for success are often what make the job feel unsustainable.

But what if it didn’t have to be this way? What if the stress we experience isn’t necessarily about the workload but more about the way we’ve been taught to think about it? 

Whether you’re dealing with tax season or a different demanding period in your accounting career, these feelings often stem from beliefs we haven’t stopped to challenge. It’s not just about the amount of work we have to do; it’s the stories we tell ourselves about that work. 

The question we need to start asking ourselves is: Are we stuck in a narrative that’s no longer serving us? And more importantly, what would happen if we chose to change it? 

Imagine what your work experience could look like if you let go of these old, limiting beliefs. What if, instead of focusing on the stress and overwhelm, we started focusing on how we could approach our work differently? What if we challenged the idea that stress is an inevitable part of being an accountant?

It’s time to consider that the old ways don’t have to define our future. No matter what area of accounting you’re in, there’s an opportunity to break free from the narrative of stress and overwhelm. 

By questioning these long-held beliefs, we can create a different, more sustainable way of working that allows us to thrive instead of just survive.

The Tribe Mentality: How We Mirror Those Around Us

As humans, our brains naturally pick up on and mirror the emotions of those around us. This instinct, called “tribe mentality,” has helped humans connect and survive for thousands of years. 

In our jobs, especially in accounting, this often shows up when we take on the stress and overwhelm of our coworkers without even realizing it. When one person feels anxious, it’s easy for that feeling to spread, creating an environment where stress feels like the norm.

Think about the last time you were working during a busy time, like tax season or a major deadline. Everyone around you may have seemed stressed, juggling papers, rushing to meet deadlines, and feeling worn out. Even if you started the day calm, it’s likely you began to feel their stress too. 

This is how easily we absorb the energy around us. You might have started to feel the pressure building, thinking that stress is just part of the job and that you have no choice but to feel the same way as everyone else.

But here’s something to consider: that stress you’re feeling may not actually be yours. Often, we adopt the thoughts and feelings of those around us because we’re wired to connect. We see others acting stressed or overwhelmed, and we naturally fall into the same mindset. 

But just because others are feeling pressured doesn’t mean you have to be. Many of us mirror the feelings in our environment without stopping to ask ourselves, “Do I really need to feel this way?”

Unfortunately, this is how tribe mentality works. We don’t want to be different, and we want to fit in. If everyone else is feeling overwhelmed, it can feel strange to stay calm. 

But what if you allowed yourself to step out of that cycle? What if, instead of taking on the stress of those around you, you decided to manage your own thoughts and emotions? You have the choice to decide how you want to feel, no matter how others are reacting.

Noticing how we mirror others is the first step to changing how we experience work. It’s not about ignoring challenges or pretending everything is fine. That’s not what I’m saying at all.  It’s about recognizing that just because your coworkers are stressed, doesn’t mean you have to be. 

You have the power to choose your own path and, in doing so, you might even inspire others to do the same. 

But thinking differently starts with recognizing the beliefs we’ve taken for granted. To create real change, we need to start challenging what we think we know about accounting and the stress we experience.

Challenging What We Think We Know

In the accounting profession, we tend to accept certain beliefs as facts, but when we take a closer look, they’re often just assumptions we’ve picked up along the way. These thoughts get passed down from one accountant to another until they become so ingrained that we stop questioning them. But the truth is, a lot of what we believe about our work is optional.

Take “tax season is stressful,” for example. This is something we hear all the time, and eventually, it starts to feel like an unavoidable reality. The same goes for “working long hours equals success.” These beliefs have been repeated so often that they’ve become part of the profession’s culture. 

But just because they’re common doesn’t make them true. What if tax season didn’t have to be stressful? What if success wasn’t measured by how many hours you put in, but by the quality of the work you do and the balance you maintain in your life?

In a few minutes I’ll share how I have had stress-free tax seasons for 10 years by challenging what I thought I knew, but that’s not the only limiting belief we have.

There are plenty of other phrases we toss around that perpetuate the stress and overwhelm in accounting:

“You’ll never get ahead unless you put in the extra hours.”

“We’re accountants; we’re supposed to be overworked.”

“Get used to being exhausted—this is how it is.”

“This is what we signed up for.”

“Clients are always going to be difficult, and we just have to deal with it.”

“If you’re not working late, you’re not dedicated enough.”

“You’ll never have a real work-life balance in this field.”


These phrases might seem harmless when we say them in passing, but they reinforce a mindset that stress and exhaustion are inevitable. We rarely stop to ask ourselves, “Is this actually true?” or “Does believing this help me?” Instead, we just accept them as part of the job.

But what if we didn’t? What if we started to challenge these assumptions and asked ourselves whether they serve us? Would we approach our work differently if we stopped believing that long hours are the only path to success? Could we find more peace and balance if we questioned whether stress is really necessary, or just something we’ve been told to expect?

The first step in changing the narrative of the accounting profession is to start questioning the beliefs we’ve taken for granted. By challenging these old ways of thinking, we open the door to new possibilities—ones where success and balance can coexist, and where stress doesn’t have to be the price we pay for being accountants.

By starting to question these long-held beliefs, we can create the mental space to consider a new approach—one where we actively reshape the future of the accounting profession. 

Continuing to hold onto these outdated beliefs is not only unhelpful but also harmful to the future of the profession. That’s why it’s crucial to understand why the ‘old ways’ have to go if we want to create a sustainable future.

Why the ‘Old Ways’ Have to Die Out for a Sustainable Future

Let’s be honest, the traditional attitudes and beliefs that have shaped the accounting profession for so long are no longer working. We’ve been holding on to ideas that are not only outdated but are actively contributing to burnout, stress, and dissatisfaction. 

The “old ways”—believing that long hours equal success, that stress is just part of the job, and that working non-stop is the only way to get ahead—are pushing accountants to their breaking point. And if we don’t change the way we think about our work, we risk pushing an entire generation of accountants out of the profession.

Look at the growing number of accountants experiencing burnout. It’s not just a coincidence. It’s a direct result of the mindset we’ve been conditioned to accept. The constant pressure to perform, meet deadlines, and work long hours is not sustainable. 

The belief that success is measured by how much you sacrifice—whether it’s your time, your health, or your relationships—has created a toxic cycle. Accountants are feeling the weight of this every day, and it’s taking a serious toll.

Continuing with this mindset doesn’t just hurt individual accountants; it hurts the profession as a whole. When we’re constantly stressed and overwhelmed, we can’t do our best work. 

We make more mistakes, we lose our passion for what we do, and eventually, we either burn out or leave the field altogether. If we want to create a sustainable future for accounting, we need to let go of these old, limiting beliefs and embrace a healthier, more balanced approach.

Changing the narrative in the accounting profession isn’t just a nice idea—it’s essential. The profession needs to evolve to survive. 

That means challenging the idea that stress and long hours are a badge of honor and starting to prioritize well-being, balance, and efficiency. It means valuing quality over quantity and recognizing that a successful accountant isn’t one who works the most hours but one who works effectively and maintains their health and happiness along the way.

If we can shift our collective mindset, we can create a future where accountants thrive, not just survive. The old ways have to die out if we want to move forward. 

It’s time for a new approach—one that focuses on sustainability, both personally and professionally, so that the next generation of accountants can enjoy long, fulfilling careers without sacrificing their well-being.

Embracing a more sustainable future starts with changing the way we think, but real transformation happens when we take action to rewrite the story of what it means to be an accountant. So, how do we begin to shift this narrative in a practical way?

The Choice to Change the Narrative

At the end of the day, accountants have a choice: continue following the old, unsustainable narrative or start questioning the beliefs that have been holding the profession back. It’s easy to keep doing things the way they’ve always been done—working long hours, accepting stress as a given, and thinking that burnout is just part of the deal. 

But here’s the thing: we don’t have to keep living that story. We have the power to change it.

Plus, the definition of insanity is doing the same things over and over and expecting different results.  We have to break free from these old patterns, challenge the beliefs that aren’t serving us, and start creating a new narrative—one that leads to healthier, more fulfilling careers in the accounting profession. 

The beliefs we hold about our work shape how we experience it. If we continue to believe that stress is unavoidable, then we’ll keep feeling overwhelmed. If we tell ourselves that working harder is the only path to success, then we’ll keep burning out. 

But if we start questioning those thoughts—if we begin to challenge the idea that being an accountant has to mean being stressed—everything can change.

You have a choice in how you experience your career. You can keep accepting the thoughts and beliefs that lead to stress and dissatisfaction, or you can decide to write a new narrative. It starts with awareness. 

Start noticing the thoughts you’re accepting without question. Ask yourself, “Is this really true?” and “Does believing this help me?” The simple act of questioning what you’ve always taken for granted can open the door to a completely different experience.

Imagine what your career could look like if you let go of the belief that stress and overwhelm are inevitable. What would happen if you redefined success to include balance and well-being, not just hours worked? How would your day-to-day experience shift if you allowed yourself to challenge the old ways and create a new, more sustainable approach to your work?

Now is the time to make that choice. The profession won’t change unless we start to change the way we think. 

By choosing to question the old narrative, we create the possibility of a future where accountants thrive—where the work is fulfilling, and the stress is manageable. It’s a future that’s within reach, but it starts with each of us deciding to think differently.

The choice is yours. Will you continue to follow the old story, or will you begin to write a new one?

Becoming a Smarter Accountant: How I Changed My Narrative

One of the biggest reasons why I wrote my book, “The Smarter Accountant” is because I had changed the narrative for myself and wanted accountants to learn what made that possible.

But the impetus for that change started after the first tax season that my second husband and I were married.  At the end of tax season he said to me, “What just happened?”  I said, “What do you mean?”  He said, “Tax season wasn’t what I expected.  You were always stressed and overwhelmed, you weren’t your normal self, you worked crazy hours, and you weren’t really present when you were home.”

I remember thinking, “Dude, you married a CPA.  What did you think it was going to be like?”  But, instead, I began to take to heart what he said.

I was working with a coach at the time and I told her what my husband had said and added, “Well, tax season is just stressful.”  She told me something that literally changed my career and my life.  She said, “You know that ‘Tax season is stressful’ is just a thought, not a fact.”

I remember thinking, “Well, clearly she has no idea what she’s talking about.”

She explained that it was a fact that I had tax deadlines and that there was more work to do during certain times of the year, but those things weren’t causing me stress.  What was causing me to feel stressed and overwhelmed was what I was thinking about those facts.

In other words, thoughts like “Tax season is stressful” or “I don’t know how I’m going to get all this done” were the cause.  And then she pointed out that our thoughts are 100% optional so if I chose more helpful and useful thoughts, I could reduce and even eliminate stress and overwhelm altogether.

Besides passing the CPA exam over 30 years ago, this was a pivotal point in my career and my life.  I began replacing my unhelpful thoughts and began practicing more helpful and useful thoughts like “Tax season doesn’t have to be stressful” and “I just need to focus on one thing at a time.”

I began feeling more focused and began getting more done in less time.  I had more energy at the end of the day and on the weekends.

The best part is that my husband started noticing without me telling him what I was doing differently.  When I explained what I had done differently that particular tax season he said, “Keep doing it.  It was a night and day difference from the previous year.” 

This is how I started to change my narrative in the accounting profession.  I began to challenge the thoughts and beliefs I had borrowed from other accountants and even publications like Accounting Today who had an article years ago titled, “Brace Yourself For Another Stressful Tax Season!”

I now recognize those unhelpful and unuseful beliefs and I choose wisely.  I get more done in less time than most accountants because I’ve become a Smarter Accountant.

Again, it’s why I wrote my book and why I distilled 10 years of knowledge into a 6-week Smarter Accountant Program.  To show accountants how to change their narrative so that they can have easier, more sustainable careers.

Let’s wrap up with a key takeaway and a simple question to help you apply what you’ve learned.

Key Takeaway and Action Item

As accountants, we have the power to rewrite the narrative of our profession. By questioning long-held beliefs and challenging assumptions like “stress is just part of the job,” we can create a more balanced, sustainable, and fulfilling career. 

The future of accounting doesn’t have to be defined by stress and burnout—we can choose a new path by thinking differently about our work.

This week ask yourself, “What is one thought or belief I’ve been holding onto about my work that I can start questioning today? How might changing that belief improve my experience in the accounting profession?

This question is crucial because the ripple effect of one accountant changing their narrative can be profound. When you shift your mindset and break free from the old, limiting beliefs, you not only transform your own experience but also set an example for those around you. 

When your colleagues see you thriving, getting your work done efficiently, and handling stress in a healthier way, it can make them stop and think about how they’re approaching things. It’s like a ripple effect—when one person starts questioning the idea that stress is just part of the job, it opens the door for others to do the same.

Honestly, it doesn’t take much. One person choosing to think differently can inspire real change and help reshape the whole accounting profession for the better. It all starts with just one small shift.

Well, that’s what I have for you.  Thank you for joining me as I discussed changing the narrative in the accounting profession.  I hope that I’ve inspired you to change your narrative about the accounting profession because it just takes one person to make a difference.

As I share all the time, you worked hard to become an accountant; it’s time to make it easier to be one.

So if you are struggling with any aspect of being an accountant, you can simply go to www.thesmarteraccountant.com/calendar and book a free session with me.

And make sure you check back each week as I help you go from being a stressed accountant to a Smarter Accountant.

Make sure you go to www.thesmarteraccountant.com and take The Smarter Accountant Quiz. You’re going to want to know if you’ve been underutilizing your accountant brain so that you have a starting point for becoming a Smarter Accountant..

Also, I would appreciate it if you could get the word out to other accountants about this podcast.  The more accountants find out about it, the more we can begin to change the narrative in the accounting profession.

The truth is that you’re already smart, but this podcast will show you how to be smarter.

Why Everything Seems Urgent And What to Do About It

Have you ever started your day with a clear plan, ready to tackle everything on your list, and then—bam!—one small interruption throws you off course? Suddenly, it feels like every task is screaming, “Do me now!” Before you know it, you’re scrambling to figure out what to do first, and it’s like your to-do list has taken over your day.

Why does this happen? Why does everything suddenly feel so urgent, even when it’s not?

We all know we should focus on the important things, but those “urgent” tasks have a way of grabbing hold and not letting go. We’ve all been there—jumping on emails the second they hit our inbox, rushing to respond to a client request, or feeling the pull of a time-limited sale we just can’t ignore. It’s like urgency hijacks our day.

Here’s the thing: this isn’t happening because you’re disorganized or bad at time management. The truth is, our brains are hard-wired to respond to urgency—it’s almost impossible to resist. This response, called the “Mere Urgency Effect,” explains why we often get caught up in tasks that feel pressing but aren’t actually important.

Think about this: you’re shopping online, and you see, “Only 3 hours left to save 50%!” Even if you weren’t planning to buy anything, suddenly it feels urgent. That same pull shows up in your work life, too. 

You might have a big project that needs thoughtful attention, but as soon as an “urgent” email or request pops up, your brain jumps into action mode, leaving you constantly putting out fires instead of making real progress.

This cycle is exhausting. It keeps us busy, but not productive. And the tricky part? Those urgent tasks are often much less valuable than they seem in the moment.

So, how do we break free and take back control of our time? That’s what I want to cover today. We’ll dive into the Mere Urgency Effect, the brain science behind it, how it shows up in daily life, and, most importantly, how to manage it.

Let’s start with what the Mere Urgency Effect actually is and why it’s so hard to resist.

The Mere Urgency Effect Explained

You know that feeling when you sit down to work on something important, and just as you’re getting into it, your phone buzzes or an email pops up, and suddenly, you’re off track? It’s like whatever just came in feels so urgent, you have to handle it right away—even though, deep down, you know it’s not that important. 

That’s what’s known as the Mere Urgency Effect.  So, what is the Mere Urgency Effect? Basically, it’s our brain’s annoying habit of prioritizing things that feel urgent—even when they’re not really important. 

It’s like when you’re in the middle of a big project, and your phone alerts you to a “flash sale” that’s ending in an hour. You weren’t even thinking about shopping, but now you’re tempted to stop everything because, well, the deal is about to end.

Our brains are wired for this kind of reaction. It’s a leftover survival instinct from way back when we had to respond immediately to actual threats, like wild animals or dangerous weather. 

But nowadays, it’s more about reacting to every notification, email, or “limited-time offer” that comes our way. The problem is, we’re tricked into thinking everything that seems urgent needs our attention right now.

Let me tell you a funny story. I had set aside an entire morning to work on a big project. It was one of those high-impact tasks that needed my full focus. I was ready to dive in, and then my phone buzzed with a notification from Bath & Body Works—there was a “One-Day Only Sale” on candles. 

Now, I love their candles, so of course, I felt this little pull to check it out. I told myself, “It’s only today.”. Next thing you know, I spent 30 minutes buying candles I didn’t even need. 

And just as I was about to get back to work, my email pinged with a client question. It wasn’t urgent, but I thought, I’ll just answer this real quick. Long story short, that project barely got touched.

I got totally caught up in the Mere Urgency Effect. I let those small, “urgent” things take over, and the important stuff got pushed to the side. 

And let’s be honest, we’ve all been there—whether it’s checking emails the second they come in or tackling small tasks just to feel like we’re getting something done. It’s like we’re constantly busy, but we’re not making real progress on what truly matters.

The issue is that those little urgent tasks often give us a quick sense of accomplishment, which feels good in the moment. But in reality, we’re just putting out tiny fires, not building anything significant. So how do we stop this cycle?

The first step is understanding why we’re so drawn to these urgent distractions. Let’s dig into the brain science behind it and figure out why it feels so hard to resist.

The Brain Science Behind Why Everything Seems Urgent


Let’s break down why everything feels urgent, even when it’s not. I’ve mentioned this before on the podcast, but your lower, primitive brain, the part I like to call the “Toddler brain,” craves instant gratification and reacts in the moment. It’s not thinking about long-term goals—it just wants to feel good or fix something now.

When a notification pops up or a deadline looms, your Toddler brain kicks in, reacting instantly. Tackling a quick task gives you a small dopamine hit—the brain’s reward chemical—which feels great in the moment. 

This “quick win” satisfaction keeps you chasing after small, urgent tasks, even when they don’t move the needle on what truly matters.

Here’s the catch: this instinct made sense when we had to react quickly to survive, but today, it leads to jumping from task to task without focusing on what’s important. For example, you might drop a major project to respond to a non-urgent email, simply because it feels pressing in the moment.

Recognizing this pattern in your brain is the first step toward taking control. But how does this brain response actually play out in our everyday work lives? Let’s take a closer look.

How the Mere Urgency Effect Shows Up in Daily Life

Now that you understand how the brain’s hardwiring can pull you into urgent tasks, let’s talk about how this plays out day to day. It’s that feeling of running around all day, checking things off your list, only to end the day realizing you didn’t make any real progress. That’s the Mere Urgency Effect in action.

This effect tricks us into mistaking busyness for productivity. You might spend hours answering emails, thinking, “I’m getting so much done!” But when you look back, those emails could have waited, and the critical project requiring your focus remains untouched.

Our brains often confuse urgency with importance. A Slack message or email notification grabs your attention because it feels pressing, even if it’s not truly significant. This cycle of reacting to urgent-but-unimportant tasks can leave you stuck on a hamster wheel, constantly busy but not moving forward on what matters.

For accountants, this challenge is magnified by constant deadlines. Monthly closings, tax season, and client demands all feel urgent, making it hard to prioritize effectively. Imagine sitting down to prepare for a major client presentation only to get derailed by a less critical email or a quick team update. By the end of the day, the high-impact task hasn’t even started.

Breaking free from this cycle begins with recognizing the Mere Urgency Effect for what it is—a distraction from meaningful work. Once you’re aware of how it influences your choices, you can start to regain control. Let’s explore how to do that next.

What to Do About the Urgency Effect

Breaking free from the urgency trap starts with awareness. Think about the last time you sat down to work on something important, like preparing a client presentation or finalizing a month-end report. You were ready to dive in, but then a “quick” email popped up, or a colleague stopped by with a question. 

Before you knew it, half an hour had passed, and you hadn’t even started the task you planned to focus on. That’s the urgency effect at work—pulling your attention to what feels pressing instead of what truly matters.

The key to taking control is pausing. When you feel the pull of urgency, stop and ask yourself, “Is this really important, or does it just feel like I have to do it now?” This moment of pause gives you space to evaluate your priorities instead of reacting automatically. 

For example, when a client emails you with a non-urgent question while you’re reviewing a tax return with a tight deadline, pausing allows you to recognize that the return takes priority, and the email can wait until later.

Once you’ve paused, the next step is reframing your thoughts. Instead of thinking, “If I don’t answer this now, I’ll fall behind,” try something like, “This can wait while I focus on what’s most important.” 

Reframing helps you quiet that inner voice that tells you everything needs your attention immediately. For accountants, this can mean consciously choosing to let emails or less-critical client requests sit until you’ve completed a high-impact task.

Let’s look at another example. Imagine it’s close to the end of the month, and you’re balancing multiple responsibilities: preparing financial statements, responding to client questions, and managing last-minute team updates. Everything feels urgent. 

But if you pause and think it through, you might realize that while answering client questions feels pressing, completing the financial statements is the most important task because it affects your firm’s deadlines. By reframing your thoughts—“I can circle back to these questions after I finish the statements”—you give yourself permission to stay focused on the bigger priority.

This process of pausing and reframing becomes even more effective when you pair it with a clear plan. At the start of your day, take five minutes to outline your top priorities. Ask yourself, “What will make the biggest difference today?” Then, when something urgent-feeling pops up, you can remind yourself of the plan you already made.

For instance, if a team member messages you with a last-minute question while you’re working on a tax projection, you can respond with, “Let’s discuss this later—I’m wrapping up something critical right now.”

The goal isn’t to ignore everything that feels urgent but to consciously decide when and how to address it. Practicing this process takes time, but the more you pause, reframe, and stick to your plan, the easier it gets. 

You’ve already heard me talk about the Supervising Parent part of your brain—it’s all about letting that calm, rational side take charge instead of reacting to every distraction.

So, the next time you feel the pull of urgency, remember: pausing is powerful. It’s not about doing less but about doing what truly matters. 

With practice, you’ll notice a shift—you’ll feel more in control, less rushed, and far more productive. And that’s how you start breaking free from the urgency trap.

Practical Strategies to Manage Urgency

Let’s talk about some practical strategies to manage urgency. One of the best ways to manage it is to take a page out of an emergency room’s playbook. Think about it—ER doctors deal with urgency all day, but they don’t just jump into action for every case that comes through the door. They use triage to decide what needs immediate attention and what can wait. 

You can do the same with your tasks by asking, “What’s truly important here, and what can wait?” This small habit can save you from constantly reacting to every notification or request.

Once you’ve got that mindset, time blocking becomes a lifesaver. It’s like making appointments with yourself for the most important work. Set aside time specifically for high-impact tasks, and treat it like a meeting you wouldn’t cancel. 

The beauty of time blocking is that it helps you focus on what matters most while giving you permission to set aside distractions. Even when other things pop up that feel urgent, you can remind yourself, “This time is already spoken for.”

Prioritizing is just as crucial. At the start of your day—or better yet, the night before—ask yourself, “What will make the biggest difference in the long run?” 

Write down those priorities and commit to tackling them first. Let the smaller, less important tasks fall into place later. This way, you’re making intentional decisions about your time, rather than letting the day dictate your focus.

These strategies take practice, but they work. The more intentional you are with your time, the easier it gets to break free from that constant rush of urgency. 

You’ll feel more in control, less stressed, and far more productive. Remember, it’s not about doing everything—it’s about doing the right things. 

Becoming a Smarter Accountant: Getting A Handle On Urgency

One of the biggest benefits of The Smarter Accountant Time Management Program is getting a better handle on The Mere Urgency Effect. As accountants, no one teaches us how to manage our minds so that we can better manage our time. That’s why I do what I do.

Let me tell you about a client who felt like she was constantly running on fumes. Every day, she dove into emails, client calls, and last-minute requests, but by the end of the day, she was exhausted and frustrated. Despite working nonstop, the most important projects were still untouched. She told me, “I’m busy all the time, but I’m not making real progress.”

When we started working together, she realized how much small, urgent-seeming tasks were hijacking her focus. Emails and quick client questions felt pressing, but most of them could wait. The game-changer for her was learning to pause and ask herself, “Do I need to handle this now, or can it wait while I focus on what’s truly important?”

We also implemented time blocking for her high-priority tasks. At first, it felt strange to let some things wait, but she quickly saw the difference. Those “urgent” tasks weren’t as critical as they seemed, and for the first time in years, she made real progress on her big projects.

After a few weeks, she told me, “I finally feel in control of my time.” She was calmer, more productive, and even more present with her family. The constant stress of urgency was gone, and she felt like she had her life back.

Her story is proof that you don’t have to stay stuck in the urgency trap. When you pause, focus on what matters, and let the small stuff wait, you can take back your time and energy. If she could do it, so can you.

I hope you can see that while everything may seem urgent, it doesn’t have to be.  

Let’s wrap up with a key takeaway and a simple question to help you apply what you’ve learned.

Key Takeaway and Action Item

The key takeaway is that the Mere Urgency Effect can easily trick you into spending your time on tasks that feel pressing but aren’t truly important. By becoming aware of this effect and learning to reframe your thoughts, you can break free from the constant cycle of urgency. This allows you to focus on what truly matters, leading to a more productive and less stressful day.

This week ask yourself, “Is this task truly important, or does it just feel urgent?”

This question is crucial because it helps you pause and evaluate your actions before diving into a task. By asking this, you’re training your brain to distinguish between urgency and importance, which is the first step toward managing your time more effectively. 

This simple question can be a game-changer in how you approach your day and make decisions about where to invest your energy.

I promise you, everything is NOT urgent, even though it seems that way.

Well, that’s what I have for you.  Thank you for joining me as I discussed why everything seems urgent and what to do about it.  I hope you’ve learned something that you can begin to apply in your career or in your personal life.

As I share all the time, you worked hard to become an accountant; it’s time to make it easier to be one.

So if you are struggling with any aspect of being an accountant, you can simply go to www.thesmarteraccountant.com/calendar and book a free session with me.

And make sure you check back each week as I help you go from being a stressed accountant to a Smarter Accountant.

Make sure you go to www.thesmarteraccountant.com and take The Smarter Accountant Quiz. You’re going to want to know if you’ve been underutilizing your accountant brain so that you have a starting point for becoming a Smarter Accountant.

Also, I would appreciate it if you could get the word out to other accountants about this podcast.  The more accountants find out about it, the more we can begin to change the narrative in the accounting profession.

The truth is that you’re already smart, but this podcast will show you how to be smarter.

The Inbox Makeover Every Accountant Needs

Let’s talk about something we all deal with—your inbox. Have you ever stopped to think about whether it’s helping or hurting your productivity?

Take a second to ask yourself: how many hours have you lost to email this week? If you’re like most accountants, the answer might surprise you.

The average professional spends about 28% of their workweek managing emails. That’s over 11 hours—basically an entire workday spent just on email!

We tend to think of email as something we quickly check between tasks or respond to when we have a free moment. But have you noticed how often a “quick check” spirals into way more time than you intended?

The truth is, email can easily take over your day if you’re not careful. And let’s be honest—it’s hard to stay on top of everything when unread messages keep piling up.

Have you ever come in on a Monday morning, opened your inbox, and immediately felt overwhelmed? Hundreds of unread emails staring back at you can make you feel behind before you even start.

Or maybe you’ve caught yourself thinking about emails even when you’re off the clock. That mental clutter can drain your energy, even when you’re not actively working.

Here’s the thing—email is supposed to make communication easier, but if it’s not managed well, it can do the opposite. It can pull you away from the work that really matters and leave you feeling scattered.

Think about it: how often do you stop what you’re doing to check your inbox? How many times have you reread the same email because you didn’t have time to deal with it the first time?

All those little interruptions add up. They break your focus, waste your time, and make it harder to get back on track.

Over time, an overflowing inbox doesn’t just waste hours—it creates stress and leaves you feeling like you’re always playing catch-up. That’s no way to work.

What if your inbox wasn’t such a constant source of frustration? Imagine opening it and seeing only the messages that actually matter, without all the clutter.

In today’s episode, we’ll dive into why your inbox feels so overwhelming and, more importantly, what you can do to fix it. It’s time to stop letting email run your day and start taking control.

Your inbox should be a tool to help you, not a time suck that drains your energy. Let’s make it work for you instead of against you.

The Brain Science Behind Inbox Overload

Let’s start by talking about why email feels like it’s taking over your day. You might not think of your inbox as a source of stress, but trust me, it totally is—and here’s why.

Your brain can’t automatically organize an inbox full of read and unread emails. It sees every unread email as something unfinished, which just piles on mental stress and makes it harder to focus.

Honestly, I often joke that email is an accountant’s “drug of choice.” Think about it—every time you hear that little ding or see a notification, your brain gets a quick hit of dopamine, the same feel-good chemical you get from eating dessert or getting a compliment.

It feels great in the moment, but that dopamine hit is what makes email so addictive. Before you know it, you’re constantly checking, craving that next “fix,” and feeling a little panicked if you can’t step away.

The problem is, every time you stop what you’re doing to check an email, it pulls you out of focus. And the more you do it, the harder it gets to concentrate on what really matters.

Here’s the thing—your brain can handle a lot, but it has limits. This is called decision fatigue, and it’s why things like making choices or staying focused get harder as the day goes on.

And email is like decision fatigue on steroids. Every time you check your inbox, your brain is flooded with questions: Should I reply now or later? Is this email even important? Should I save this or delete it?

Even those little decisions—like whether to open an email or ignore it—start to add up. With dozens, maybe even hundreds of emails coming in every day, your brain gets overwhelmed fast.

When your brain is in overdrive like this, your focus slips, and even simple tasks feel like climbing a mountain. That’s why you feel drained and less productive by the end of the day.

The truth is, an overflowing inbox doesn’t just eat up your time—it drains your energy and clarity too. It’s like trying to run a marathon while carrying a heavy backpack. You might make it, but it’s going to feel way harder than it should.

This is what email overload does to your brain. It weighs you down with mental clutter and makes it harder to focus on the things that actually matter.

Here’s the bottom line: It’s not just about freeing up your time—it’s about freeing up your mind too. If you want to be a smarter accountant, you’ve got to learn how to take care of your accountant brain.

Three Email Habits Getting In Your Way

Now that we’ve discussed how an overflowing inbox can overwhelm your brain, let’s dig into some specific habits that might be making things worse. These are common pitfalls that many of us fall into, often without even realizing the damage they’re causing to our productivity. And believe me, I’ve got the research that backs up just how serious these problems can be.

Habit 1: Lack of Scheduled Email Processing Time

One of the biggest productivity killers is the habit of reacting to every email as soon as it arrives. You’re focused on a task, and then ding—a new email notification pulls your attention away. Before you know it, you’re deep into responding to emails instead of working on the project you had planned.

This constant interruption is more harmful than you might think. Studies show that it takes an average of 23 minutes to fully regain focus after an interruption, a phenomenon known as “attention residue.”

This means that every time you check an email, even if it’s just for a moment, your brain struggles to refocus on what you were originally doing. Over the course of a day, these interruptions add up, leaving you feeling scattered and less productive.

Even worse, this habit can create a cycle of stress. The more you interrupt yourself to check emails, the more you feel the need to stay on top of them, and the less time you have to actually get meaningful work done. It’s a vicious circle that can leave you feeling like you’re always playing catch-up.

Habit 2: Subscription Overload

Another common issue is the habit of subscribing to too many newsletters, industry updates, or promotional emails. At first, it might seem like a good idea to stay informed and up-to-date. But before you know it, your inbox is overflowing with emails that aren’t directly related to your work.

The problem with this is that it creates unnecessary noise. One study showed that the average professional receives around 121 emails per day. 

With so many messages coming in, it’s easy for important emails from clients or colleagues to get lost in the shuffle. You might find yourself spending valuable time sifting through irrelevant content just to find the emails that really matter.

This overload doesn’t just waste time—it also contributes to decision fatigue. The more emails you have to process, the more your brain has to work to decide what’s important and what can be ignored. Over time, this can lead to mental exhaustion and reduced productivity.

Habit 3: Using the Inbox as a Catch-All

Finally, there’s the habit of using your inbox as a storage space for everything—tasks, reminders, documents, and more. It’s easy to fall into this trap because it feels convenient at the moment. 

For example, need to remember something? Just email it to yourself. Want to keep a document handy? Leave it in your inbox.

But this habit can create a digital mess that’s just as overwhelming as a physical one. Research shows that cluttered environments, whether physical or digital, can lead to reduced focus and increased stress. 

When your inbox is filled with non-email tasks and documents, it becomes harder to find what you need. You end up wasting time searching for information and feeling overwhelmed by the sheer volume of stuff sitting in your inbox.

It’s also important to understand that using your inbox as a catch-all means that your brain is constantly trying to process different types of information—reminders, documents, tasks—on top of regular emails. This adds to your cognitive load, making it harder to concentrate and get things done.

The bottom line is that even though we all have issues with one or more of these habits, they are making it harder for us to be productive and efficient accountants.  That’s why it’s important to recognize your unhelpful email habits and understand the toll they’re taking on your productivity and mental clarity.

How to Take Back Control of Your Inbox

Now that we’ve identified the habits that can make your inbox a source of stress and inefficiency, let’s talk about how you can start taking control. It’s all about making a few simple changes that can lead to big improvements in how you manage your emails—and ultimately, how you manage your day.

One of the most popular mini-training videos in The Smarter Accountant Time Management Program covers email management, but today I just want to share a few strategies with you:

Strategy 1: Implement Scheduled Email Times

One of the most effective ways to regain control of your inbox is to set up specific times to check and process emails. Instead of reacting to every email as soon as it comes in, you’ll handle them in batches. This approach helps you stay focused on your work without constantly being interrupted.

Here’s how you can do it:

Choose Your Times: Pick a few times during the day when you’ll check your email. Good options might be first thing in the morning, after lunch, and before you finish work for the day. These are natural breaks in your day when it makes sense to clear out your inbox.  The most important thing here is that you should be in charge of when to give attention to email; email shouldn’t be in charge of your focus and attention.

Stick to the Schedule: Once you’ve set your email times for no more than 15 to 30 minutes, it’s important to stick to them. This means resisting the urge to check your email outside of these times. It might be tough at first, especially if you’re used to checking your inbox constantly, but it’s worth it. By limiting when you check emails, you’ll reduce decision fatigue and free up mental space for more important tasks.  I’m telling you, this is a game-changer.

Turn Off Notifications: To help yourself stick to the schedule, turn off email notifications. This way, you’re not tempted to peek at your inbox every time a new message arrives. Instead, you can focus on your work and handle emails when it’s time.  Every time you hear or see an email notification, your brain gets a hit of dopamine—the feel-good hormone. To stay focused, it’s important to break this habit by turning off notifications.

Strategy 2: Declutter Your Subscriptions

Another key step in taking control of your inbox is decluttering all those subscriptions that you’ve signed up for over the years. While staying informed is important, too many newsletters and promotional emails can clutter your inbox and distract you from the messages that really matter.

Here’s how to clean things up:

Review Your Subscriptions: Take a look at the emails you receive regularly. Are there newsletters you never read or promotions you’re not interested in? If so, it’s time to unsubscribe. Most emails have an unsubscribe link at the bottom, and it only takes a few seconds to remove yourself from the list.

Use Unsubscribe Tools: If you have a lot of subscriptions, consider using an unsubscribe tool like Unroll.me or Clean Email. These tools can help you quickly identify and unsubscribe from emails you don’t need, making the process faster and easier.

Benefit from a Cleaner Inbox: Once you’ve decluttered your subscriptions, you’ll notice a big difference. Fewer emails mean less distraction for your brain, and you’ll be able to focus more easily on the important messages. Plus, a cleaner inbox is less overwhelming to your brain, which can improve your overall focus and productivity.

Strategy 3: Organize and Streamline Your Workflow

For this strategy it’s important to set up a system for organizing your emails and managing the information that doesn’t belong in your inbox. A well-organized inbox makes it easier to find what you need and helps you stay on top of tasks without feeling overwhelmed.

Here’s how to do it:

Create Folders or Tags: Set up folders or tags in your email client to categorize your emails. For example, you might have folders for clients, ongoing projects, or important documents. As emails come in, file them away in the appropriate folder, so your inbox stays clean and organized.  I use Outlook and have my email folders set up by client.  I sort my inbox by the “From” tab and swipe all the emails related to that client into their appropriate folder.  I also have a folder labeled “#TBD” for the most important things I need to focus on, this way nothing gets lost. 

Use Other Tools for Non-Email Tasks: If you’re currently using your inbox to store reminders, documents, or to-do lists, it’s time to find a better system. Apps like Trello, Asana, or even a simple notes app are better suited for managing these tasks. By keeping non-email tasks out of your inbox, you’ll reduce clutter and make it easier to stay organized.

Schedule Regular Clean-Ups: Set aside some time, like an hour on Fridays, to declutter your inbox and tidy up your folders. This helps prevent your inbox from becoming overwhelming again and keeps your email management system running smoothly. For example, at the end of the year I go into each client’s email folder, sort by date, and delete anything over 7 years old.

Strategy 4: Set Up an Email Autoresponder

The last powerful strategy to take control of your inbox is to set up an email autoresponder. This tool can automatically let people know when they can expect a response from you, allowing you to stick to your email schedule without feeling pressured to reply immediately.

Here’s why this is important: In our always-on culture, there’s often an expectation of immediate responses to emails. But this constant pressure can lead to burnout and decreased productivity. By using an autoresponder, you set clear boundaries for yourself and others, making it easier to focus on deep work without interruptions.

An autoresponder message might look something like this:

“Thank you for your email. To be as productive and efficient as possible, I check emails at (specific times during the day). I will get back to you within (specific amount of time like 24 hours) if a response is necessary. Thank you for your understanding.”

This message does a few important things:

It Sets Expectations: By letting people know when you’ll respond, you reduce the pressure to reply instantly. This gives you the space to focus on your work during non-email times.

It Closes The Loop: One of the biggest struggles that people deal with is not being sure that their email was received or will be addressed.  The autoresponder message closes the loop in the sender’s brain letting them know that it was received and will be addressed within a specific amount of time, allowing for less anxiety.

It Reinforces Your Boundaries: Establishing and communicating clear boundaries helps you maintain a healthy work-life balance and prevents email from taking over your day.  You need to learn how to take back control of your time and attention.

You might be thinking that setting up an autoresponder feels like a small step, but it can have a big impact on how you manage your time and energy. By letting others know that you’re committed to a more focused and efficient way of working, you’ll find it easier to stick to your new email habits and take back control of your inbox.

The bottom line is that by implementing these strategies, you’ll start to see a real difference in how you manage your emails. Your inbox will feel more manageable, and you’ll have more mental energy to devote to the tasks that really matter. 

The key is that taking control of your inbox is not just about clearing out emails—it’s about taking back control of your time and your focus.

Becoming a Smarter Accountant: Getting Control Of Her Inbox

As I said before, one of the on-demand mini-trainings I have in The Smarter Accountant Time Management Program deals with email management.  Every coaching client has told me it was one of the most helpful trainings they’ve ever learned.

For example, one of my coaching clients was feeling completely overwhelmed by her inbox. She used to dread opening her email every morning, knowing that she’d be greeted by hundreds of unread messages, most of which weren’t even important.

The constant ping of new emails throughout the day kept her on edge, and she found herself reacting to every notification, no matter how trivial. This constant interruption made it nearly impossible for her to focus on her work, and by the end of the day, she felt drained and unproductive.

During our coaching sessions, we started by identifying the habits that were causing her inbox stress. She realized she was checking her email dozens of times a day, subscribing to newsletters she never read, and using her inbox as a dumping ground for reminders and documents.

We worked together to create a plan: she set up specific times to check her email, started unsubscribing from anything that wasn’t essential, and organized her emails with folders and tags.

We also added an autoresponder to let people know when they could expect a reply, which took a huge weight off her shoulders.

A few weeks later, the difference was night and day. She no longer felt the constant pressure to respond immediately, and her inbox was cleaner and more organized.

She told me how freeing it was to know that she could focus on her tasks without being distracted by every new email. Her productivity improved, and she even found she had more energy at the end of the day.

The best part? She regained a sense of control over her work and her time, which reduced her stress and made her much happier in her job. It was a powerful transformation that all started with getting control of her inbox.

I hope you can see that although taking control of your inbox might seem like a small change, it can have a big impact on your productivity and peace of mind. By implementing these strategies, you’ll not only reduce stress but also free up valuable time to focus on what really matters.

Remember, your inbox is a tool—don’t let it control you. Take charge, and watch how much easier your workday becomes.

Let’s wrap up with a key takeaway and a simple question to help you apply what you’ve learned.

Key Takeaway and Action Item

The key takeaway is that your inbox should be a tool that helps you get things done, not something that stresses you out or takes over your day. When you manage your email with intention, you can actually free up time and energy for the things that matter most.

This week, try asking yourself, “Is my inbox helping me stay productive, or is it running the show?” It’s such a simple question, but it really makes you pause and think. 

Are you in control, or are you just reacting—checking notifications, getting stuck in emails that don’t even matter, or rereading the same ones because you’re not sure what to do with them?

The beauty of this question is that it helps you spot where your inbox might be getting in the way. Once you see it, you can start making changes, like setting specific times to check your email or unsubscribing from stuff you don’t need. 

The goal is to take charge of how you handle email so it works for you—not the other way around. You deserve to feel in control of your time, not overwhelmed by your inbox!

Well, that’s what I have for you today! Thank you so much for joining me as we talked about the email inbox makeover every accountant needs. My hope is that you’ve picked up at least one thing you can start using right away.

Remember, you worked hard to become an accountant—it’s time to make it easier to be one.

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